In many ways,some of you have got yourselves to blame,for making lpsg your own personal home away from home.
When you feel one of yr beloved kin has been wronged, you come out with Guns blazing in support.
Nothing wrong with that...but
When there is a 19 year old genuinely asking a reasonable question
My GF says her x had a bigger cock than me' (or something similar) where were all these 1000 or more posters who could have given him advice and support
Only one person with significant posts was there
Were many of you avoiding his Question.possibly preferring to interact,as many of you have so become accustomed to....Muti Quoting a post/dissecting every sentence, almost every word.in some meaningless thread..basically getting your jollys in expressing yourselves, possibly so you can show to others just how clever and humourous you are.
.Where is the support value in such.
Me...relatively new member/just decided to 'come out',,i state how I,want to run my presence on the board,and am vitually TOLD how i should be conducting myself...open myself to the above i have just mentioned.
NO Fckn way!
Well i dont need any person to tell me that,i can tell you, i have not lived my life to have such happen.
What does a person have to do to earn any form of respect around here.
I feel if you cant get your opinion across in a couple of posts, well go figure... thats me, and what i have decided will work for ME /accept it.
I tried to be low key, and introduce myself slowly,expecting to gradually work into the fold,and of course certain persons (surprising how wrong i was with some/and expecting others to utter the precise words they did)
How many of you are here for selfish reasons?
How may of you are here to nuture other,s and welcome them with fair input/opinions and offer advice?
--and yes i did note who attended the thread i am talking about,who popped in,and kept mum,respectfully giving me a chance, i thank you,s for that.
To clarify a couple of issues,i posted for several months on askacow/and have NOT just happened to miraculously have good internet access to be able to spend more time on the boards now..because Rob e in his generosity, has offered FREE Gold Membership
Damn hurtful that statement
So i can look at the latest developments and ponder....that is the way it is, those of you who are resilient enuf will settle down and continue your merry way...because this is your 2nd home,and no one really wants to leave home...some of you,s ever..and thats where your fear is.
enz