Deal breakers!!??

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i did think of one other thing to add to the deal-breaker list: intentional litterers.

littering on purpose is so not cool!
I didnt even think of this... but people that litter annoy the hell out of me. How hard is it to drop it in a trash can or wait until you get home/to work to put it in the trash there? How lazy are you to need to do that?
 

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I didnt even think of this... but people that litter annoy the hell out of me. How hard is it to drop it in a trash can or wait until you get home/to work to put it in the trash there? How lazy are you to need to do that?

heck yes! it bothers the tar out of me. a good friend of mine had a half-full slurpee tossed at him while jogging because he wasn't immediately visible and the driver was lazy. jumpin jesus on a pogo stick! *peeved face*
 

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a pet-peeve of mine are people who spend too much time playing with their portable gadgets.... like, i own a smartphone myself, but when i'm being social with people 'in-person' i have it on silent and don't need to be checking my facebook every 5 minutes.... as an extention of that, i really hate it when people expect me to be 'connected' all the time.... like, as much time as i spend using the net and my gadgets, i do know when not to use them and it bothers me when i leave my phone on silent or step away from the computer to take care of errands/chores and i'm suddenly hyper-messaged by people who get pissed off if i don't reply to them in 30 seconds.... that soooooo bothers me....

but those are just general peeves, not necessarily just deal breakers i might have with a potential partner.....
 

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Teeth have to look nice, have to be close to my height or taller. I also cannot tolerate it if they are feminine, it really ticks me off. No airheads, stupid people also tick me off.

Another thing is I won't date anyone who does not have any long term goals. I'm talking about completing college and getting a CAREER where you can be sucessful (I'm doing the same thing right now). If I wanted a sack of potatoes I would go to the Farmers Market.
 

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Teeth have to look nice, have to be close to my height or taller. I also cannot tolerate it if they are feminine, it really ticks me off. No airheads, stupid people also tick me off.

Another thing is I won't date anyone who does not have any long term goals. I'm talking about completing college and getting a CAREER where you can be sucessful (I'm doing the same thing right now). If I wanted a sack of potatoes I would go to the Farmers Market.
You can have a very successful career without a college degree.
 

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A nasty mouth is a definite deal breaker. If you have bad breath or nasty teeth you haven't taken care of, ugh nope. And shower please. I hate to smell funky sweaty cheesy smellin ass crack. :puke:
 

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I'd never be able to get past a super rude, downright mean person! I'd put up with a lot of things but that is an absolute no-no.
 
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I must be attracted to their mannorism, that is why online dating does not work for me.
 

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Teeth have to look nice, have to be close to my height or taller. I also cannot tolerate it if they are feminine, it really ticks me off. No airheads, stupid people also tick me off.

Another thing is I won't date anyone who does not have any long term goals. I'm talking about completing college and getting a CAREER where you can be sucessful (I'm doing the same thing right now). If I wanted a sack of potatoes I would go to the Farmers Market.

What a romantic u are! You're a real snob huh? Must have a college degree and a serious career. You'll be single for a while.
 

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What a romantic u are! You're a real snob huh? Must have a college degree and a serious career. You'll be single for a while.

single's not always a bad thing. some people would rather be single than date from their current pool of options if those options are not suitable for their needs. some people even enjoy being single, fancy that!
 
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single's not always a bad thing. some people would rather be single than date from their current pool of options if those options are not suitable for their needs. some people even enjoy being single, fancy that!

True, being single for now is nice. Especially since I have to get myself in order before I get into any serious relationship.

I have my standards and try not to associate to often with foolish people or those without any sort of education. I refuse to settle for less.
 

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For now, I really can't deal with guys who already have a partner but still wander around searching for brief but constant gratification (AKA friends with benefit)...
 

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Sarcastic to the point of it being biting and just plain bitchy and douchy. I could not care if the dude has a bubble, ripped abs and a cock that you could ride for eons - if he acts like he thinks he's god's gift and KNOWS he's all that and likes to just treat people like shit just to make himself feel good about himself then its adios mate.
 

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You guys are picky.

1. Institutionalized and or diagnosed with a severe psychological disorder. (Not seem like I'm discriminating but I have had to look for relationship advice in the DSM-IV one too many times)

2. Wears socks to bed.
 

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i know for me, if a woman is high maintenance or just plain mean i am out of there. i cant deal with selfish people. if a girl is miserable to begin with, i wont even start with her.

what are some dealbreakers of the opposite sex for you?:biggrin1:

also if they are married i wont disrupt it.