Dealbreaker?: The Sexless Guy
I've encountered this anomally of alleged masculinity and quickly dropped him like a hot potato. Another time I hung in there but in retrospect I am not sure it was worth it. :redface: :irked:
In the past when I have encountered this bizarre behavior I felt exactly like the woman who wrote the article.
So ladies and gents have you encountered the sexless or asexual man? What did you do? How did you handle him and your feelings? Did the relationship last?
What about guys who just arent into sex? Yes, they exist. Anyone who tells you otherwisethat all men are 24/7 sex fiendsis either lying or has just been lucky enough not to meet the kind of guy Im talking about: the sexless guy. Ive dated several guys who, from what I can tell, have a take it or leave it attitude toward sex, with an emphasis on leaving it. Why, you may ask, did I, someone who writes about sex almost every day, wind up with them? I dont really know, but I did. And the worst part about it is not the physical withdrawal; Im not the kind of girl who needs to do it every day (though that would be nice).
The worst part is the feeling of rejection that cuts really, really close to home. When I experience that, its like taking all the fears I have about my attractiveness and boiling them into one pointed barb: youre not pretty/sexy/fun/cool/hot/exciting enough to f**k.
I've encountered this anomally of alleged masculinity and quickly dropped him like a hot potato. Another time I hung in there but in retrospect I am not sure it was worth it. :redface: :irked:
In the past when I have encountered this bizarre behavior I felt exactly like the woman who wrote the article.
"The worst part is the feeling of rejection that cuts really, really close to home. When I experience that, its like taking all the fears I have about my attractiveness and boiling them into one pointed barb: youre not pretty/sexy/fun/cool/hot/exciting enough to f**k."