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I had the opportunity to visit Black's Beach in San Diego this weekend, and for the first time in the two years I've been going I had to deal with an annoying guy that wouldn't leave me alone. This guy wasn't exactly a creep, but he wouldn't take the hint that I wasn't interested in talking to him. Before anyone fires off the "you were in an area known for cruising, what did you expect?" response, I'm not complaining about what happened. What I would like is some advice from others on this board on how to handle someone like this next time. So here's what happened...
This guy walks up and starts in with the usual conversation starters like if I visit often, if it was a long drive to get there and so on. I give short answers and generally avoid eye contact to convey my lack of interest, but this guy keeps talking. He starts with offering all sorts of commentary and compliments about my body. He must be blind because I'm not that fit. He said I had a nice bubble butt, but I don't know how he knew because I had been seated the entire time I talked with him. After a good long awkward silence he also complimented my pubic hair which was strange. (It's just trimmed, nothing special.) He also went into detail about the other people around us commenting on their bodies and what he wanted to do to them, which mostly consisted of grabbing lots of asses. Finally, he moved on to politics and tried to find out what political labels he could apply to me. He told me that he thinks I'm a "Log Cabin Republican" which seemed uncalled for. I'm actually 0% Republican and only 30& log cabin, just check my profile. The conversation finally ended when he had to go pee behind a bush. For being a self proclaimed voyeur he sure was stingy about putting on a show for others to watch. While he was away I took the opportunity to get dressed and take away his incentive to hang out and talk more. He left shortly after that.
So how do the other nude beach goers here on LPSG handle these types of people? I'm looking forward to reading some good stories and advice in the comments below. Thanks!
This guy walks up and starts in with the usual conversation starters like if I visit often, if it was a long drive to get there and so on. I give short answers and generally avoid eye contact to convey my lack of interest, but this guy keeps talking. He starts with offering all sorts of commentary and compliments about my body. He must be blind because I'm not that fit. He said I had a nice bubble butt, but I don't know how he knew because I had been seated the entire time I talked with him. After a good long awkward silence he also complimented my pubic hair which was strange. (It's just trimmed, nothing special.) He also went into detail about the other people around us commenting on their bodies and what he wanted to do to them, which mostly consisted of grabbing lots of asses. Finally, he moved on to politics and tried to find out what political labels he could apply to me. He told me that he thinks I'm a "Log Cabin Republican" which seemed uncalled for. I'm actually 0% Republican and only 30& log cabin, just check my profile. The conversation finally ended when he had to go pee behind a bush. For being a self proclaimed voyeur he sure was stingy about putting on a show for others to watch. While he was away I took the opportunity to get dressed and take away his incentive to hang out and talk more. He left shortly after that.
So how do the other nude beach goers here on LPSG handle these types of people? I'm looking forward to reading some good stories and advice in the comments below. Thanks!