Dealing with attention in showers

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Hi,

So I'm a extra large shower (i can hang at 7 or 8 soft and 6 thick) and it's always the way I've been. I notice that people stare a lot in the showers here. I am in communal showers sometimes 3-4 times a week, and it happens probably every week that one or more person that stares at me gets an erection looking at me.

I can handle that. But I really and honestly don't know what to say when people talk or comment on it. Maybe it's the culture here, but people are very very open about this, especially younger guys. I've been more than once asked how big it was, or heard various comments, usually negative, about my excessive size.

I'm wondering if anyone else has experience such overt situations where one's large size was discussed like this. I don't really know how to react, and I really don't wish to talk about this kind of stuff with people who might very well be below 18. I just want to give a polite answer that makes them feel ok to continue looking but to keep their thoughts to themselves. However I don't know how to address younger guys.
 

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I agree with Cube. If it's positive, just say thanks.

I guess no-one has said anything negative directly to you? Negative comments between other guys is simply them reassuring themselves that they're adequate. Leave them to it.
 

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Just smile (knowing you are a rare per centage of gifted men) and nod thanks... then move on... Actually, with a dick like yours, why would you worry about any of that... just enjoy what comes your way!
 

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Yea man, if it's a positive comment just say thanks, otherwise, just don't answer. Whatever it is, just be chill. Your the one with the big penis!
 

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Look down, grab your flaccid cock and slap it against your open palm two times and then look them straight in the eye and say, "Big ain't it!"

That will shut them up.
 

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Look down, grab your flaccid cock and slap it against your open palm two times and then look them straight in the eye and say, "Big ain't it!"

That will shut them up.

:eek: It would shut me up! (But then again, my showers with men tend to be one-on-one.)
 

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Thanks for the answers. For those asking, the negative comments were either to my face or within earshot, usually insinuating my mother fucked a horse or that i was abnormal, no girl could ever take that, it was useless, etc.

I'll try to just say thanks. I guess it doesn't really cross my mind, strangely enough, to just accept the compliment in such a public place.
 

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I must say this is perhaps the first time I've ever heard of a case where I would believe someone would legitimately need help "coping" with having a large penis. That's pretty awful that people would say things like your mother must've fucked a horse.
 

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Thanks for the answers. For those asking, the negative comments were either to my face or within earshot, usually insinuating my mother fucked a horse or that i was abnormal, no girl could ever take that, it was useless, etc.

I'll try to just say thanks. I guess it doesn't really cross my mind, strangely enough, to just accept the compliment in such a public place.

If some-one told me my mother fucked a horse I'd make like a mule and kick him in the face.
Seriously, if you cannot stand up for yourself in a situation like that then don't put yourself into a situation like that.
You have an extremely large cock and that's that. Be proud.
The other issue no-one has picked up on is the " guys who may be under 18" one.
What are under-age guys doing in comunal showers checking you out?
Where are you? what are you doing? maybe get out of that location.
 

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lykaner, a lot of guys tend to get a little insecure about their own "tackle" whenever they see somebody who is a lot bigger than themselves which sometimes result in those comments you're describing.
They are really paying you a compliment even if it sometimes comes out sounding as something else and if you start treating all comments and other forms of attention as compliments you'll feel a lot better about it.
 

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It's just part of the culture that everyone and anyone must be naked in the showers here. Children and old men. And going to the pool is pretty much my favorite thing. So I can't really get out of the situation.

There's a lot of vicious jealousy when one abnormal person is superior (to some degree) to the normal majority. Guys are quickly to rally to make the guy with the dangerously big dong seem ridiculous.

It's the story of more than one parties.

I usually stand up for myself, but somehow, in the context of being naked and very large in front of younger people who are obviously being asshats, my reaction is that my being this big in front of them is what is wrong, so I should just try to get dressed and go.

But I've had cocky moments too. I'm just never sure how it's going to go if someone talks to me about it.