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I can't speak for your friends but for me I just request time. Be it 15 minutes to an hour and that's it. We are all busy, but we are given the same 24 hours in a day. And I do know ( not talking to you directly) that if I wanted to do something, I will make the time to do it, so why not have that approach to friends.
We all praise the idea of "low maintance" friendships but that type of friendship soon turns into "no maintance" frienships.
I sugguestion with you, would be to ask them what is it exactly they want or need and tell them what exactly you want or need.
We all praise the idea of "low maintance" friendships but that type of friendship soon turns into "no maintance" frienships.
I sugguestion with you, would be to ask them what is it exactly they want or need and tell them what exactly you want or need.
I've been on the receiving end of the same complaints you make, and suffered my friends similar outbursts
didn't make sense to me then, doesn't make sense to me now, as I know I tried
but, who know? maybe too much time with my various projects, family, etc.
but, my affection and loyalty were real, heartfelt and true
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iSaV7fP107c