So i am about a couple of weeks new here and i dont know if this has been discussed here, but i need some honest opinions and advise. Please no judgements!
For context, i am bisexual, but lean more towards older men.
For the last 2 years, i have been in a 'situationship-relationship' with a man: long distance. I really wanted it to be a full blown relationship, however, he insisted on it remaining friendship. But the kind that is super deep and intimate as he didnt want to put a 'label' to what we had.
He swore to me i was the only person in his life, and at first i didnt want to belief, but eventually, i got carried away and sort of accepted all he said. Anytime he came down, we met and had some fun. I always felt he has been hiding stuff from me, but couldnt place my hands on what exactly as he kept a pretty low profile.
He recently came over and i chanced on a message he had with several guys, some of whom he claimed are his adopted sons.
To cut the long story short, i found out he had affair with someone else during one of his trips here and he lied to me about it.
I honestly thought i was strong and was over 'cheating' like these, but i feel really broken and disturbed. I can barely concentrate or engage in anything.
I think i have got my heart broken.
What do i do?
For context, i am bisexual, but lean more towards older men.
For the last 2 years, i have been in a 'situationship-relationship' with a man: long distance. I really wanted it to be a full blown relationship, however, he insisted on it remaining friendship. But the kind that is super deep and intimate as he didnt want to put a 'label' to what we had.
He swore to me i was the only person in his life, and at first i didnt want to belief, but eventually, i got carried away and sort of accepted all he said. Anytime he came down, we met and had some fun. I always felt he has been hiding stuff from me, but couldnt place my hands on what exactly as he kept a pretty low profile.
He recently came over and i chanced on a message he had with several guys, some of whom he claimed are his adopted sons.
To cut the long story short, i found out he had affair with someone else during one of his trips here and he lied to me about it.
I honestly thought i was strong and was over 'cheating' like these, but i feel really broken and disturbed. I can barely concentrate or engage in anything.
I think i have got my heart broken.
What do i do?