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I don't express anger because who wants to deal with an angry guy?
Sure its healthy and normal to vent every now and then, but I basically think its cruel to subject people to your own frustrations. (And of course
there are times when a person needs to defend themselves) But in my case, I am angry with my same sex attraction issues and that I will not be able to have a family, kids etc. This of course is my own issue and
while I am angry...I am not angry at people...I am only angry at the situation. Of course, in popular culture we are taught that there is nothing wrong with being gay. Etc...Etc.. Unpopluar as it may be...
thats not how I see it. Anyway, (to make a long post (oops too late) short...my question is...I don't see my world view changing...yet I want to deal better with this anger. I do accept myself..and realize that this is an impossible situation. But I keep on thinking...there has to be a better way. If there is anyone that has some positive feeback on this I would
be most appreciative.
Sure its healthy and normal to vent every now and then, but I basically think its cruel to subject people to your own frustrations. (And of course
there are times when a person needs to defend themselves) But in my case, I am angry with my same sex attraction issues and that I will not be able to have a family, kids etc. This of course is my own issue and
while I am angry...I am not angry at people...I am only angry at the situation. Of course, in popular culture we are taught that there is nothing wrong with being gay. Etc...Etc.. Unpopluar as it may be...
thats not how I see it. Anyway, (to make a long post (oops too late) short...my question is...I don't see my world view changing...yet I want to deal better with this anger. I do accept myself..and realize that this is an impossible situation. But I keep on thinking...there has to be a better way. If there is anyone that has some positive feeback on this I would
be most appreciative.