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I (26M) and my partner (29M) have been together for 4 years. We’ve had an open relationship for 18 months. We’re both tops and found that separating love and sex worked for us. Until recently it was working out well, we had a clear list of rules including who we can and can’t sleep with (friends etc…) and always open and honest, we tell each other everything. I know one day I will marry my partner because we love each other so deeply.
However, he has met someone who he has since kissed several times and I’m starting to feel jealous. Recently they slept together and I felt extremely embarrassed. I wasn’t upset, just felt humiliated. They have stuck to our rules but I believe there’s more to it. I think there’s emotions involved and it could quickly become a problem. What should I do? Does this count as an affair?
TLDR I have an open relationship and starting to feel jealous because I think my partner has feelings for someone else.
However, he has met someone who he has since kissed several times and I’m starting to feel jealous. Recently they slept together and I felt extremely embarrassed. I wasn’t upset, just felt humiliated. They have stuck to our rules but I believe there’s more to it. I think there’s emotions involved and it could quickly become a problem. What should I do? Does this count as an affair?
TLDR I have an open relationship and starting to feel jealous because I think my partner has feelings for someone else.