invisibleman
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It's not political and it's certainly not mysterious or complicated. It's the age-old forbidden fruit thing--just ask Eve. We crave what we don't think we can get, but certainly don't try stopping. Is it entirely fair? No, but that's the way it is and I wouldn't expect that to change in the near future.
(And no, it's not self-loathing or anything else pejorative; those ideas come from overly analytical people who have had far too much "therapy."
INVISI responds: If this comment is implying that I am being hyper-analytical and have had "therapy"...
I haven't had any therapy. I am sane. I am of sound mind. I don't have any psychoses or malevolent thought disorders. I don't believe that I have been overly analytical about the "gay-for-pay" scenario. I hate the implications that some how some gay men feel about straight men. Honestly, I am attracted to some of the hetero celebs but not because they are hetero...but because they look sexy to me. And I have met a lot of gay men that are hot and sexy in that way but not because they look hetero...but because they look good.)
All I know is, if I were interested in a porn career and I were bi or gay and able to pull off a somewhat convincing "straight" persona, I'd be telling those producers that I'm 100% straight, never even had a gay thought run through my head. From what I've read, it appears that assures a bigger paycheck for the performance. Maybe, just maybe, a few other guys have figured that out, too.
Yeah, I understand that incentives behind doing the "gay-for-pay" scenario. Again I am not hating on those that are in that certain frame of mind or are doing that.
I am looking at the porn genre from a different angle. When I watch the "gay-for-pay" sites like STRAIGHT COLLEGE MEN, I am really disconnected watching these guys because they aren't turned on...they are only in it for the money. A lot of money. And the guy that is the host/ cameraman. He creeps me out. I feel like he is exploiting those guys. I just hope those straight guys are totally smart enough to save the money that they make on that site.
I can watch JAKE CRUISE'S "Straight Guys for Gay Guys" site because I know that those guys are really into those women that they are fucking. It is hot seeing a guy actually being turned on by the girl.