let me clear this up yes in my personal life i'm stright......100%....but there also is my work life where i'm bi.....is that ok with people who give a too much of a crap......
Dean-
Long-time fan of your work...love it...
I must, however, question your statement...straightness/gayness is not defined by who you have sex with, but rather by who you WANT to have sex with...it is possible to be a straight male and have sex with guys and still be completely straight...but if you feel sexual attraction towards any men, whether you want to pursue them as a relationship, then you are bi...even if you only actually DATE women...
this is something that both the gay and straight community need to sort out...
and, Dean, it's something that you need to realise...it's okay if you're bi in every aspect of your life...but i find it difficult to believe that one can BE different sexualities for different aspects of their lives...either you're straight, some degree of bi, or gay...
(i'm not accusing you of being bi, should that offend you...i'm simply making sure that you know it's okay to admit to being bi if you are...)
Sorry for this post, but the misinterpretation of the definitions of what makes one "gay" or "straight" or anything else is one of my pet peeves...