Dear in the headlights!!! Gay men sleepin' wit' yo man!!!!

[ManlyBanisters]

I sometimes wish I were bisexual. This would be where I would be dating women if I were. Unfortunately, that isn't the case. I don't have anyone. No man.
I am truly at a crossroad. And I don't want anymore of what I have gotten.

Oh dear - I hate reading or hearing that - it's sad that you feel that way. You're letting one person's bad behaviour colour your impression of everyone else. HickBoy has said to me a couple of times that he wonders how my ex hasn't put me off men entirely. My answer is always the same, "My ex isn't 'men' he's 'a man'". My experience with him has put me off him - but I don't let it effect how I interact with Hick, that would be unfair on Hick.

When you fall off a horse you've got to get right back on, or else you become afraid of falling off everytime. Besides, just think of all the riding you're missing out on.

 

[dolfette]

meh, shit happens.
i'd kick him out, tell him i'll call him when his stuff is boxed & ready to go and then buy i'd new shoes.

 

[pussnboots]

could I join in???

 

[invisibleman]

My fingers are crossed that a good man finds you, Invisi. :hug: I know sometimes it may seem impossible or easier to give up hope, but please do not allow one man's mind games to rob you of the ability to believe something good may happen.

If you were into women, I would be first in line for the music (I love your music!), sidewinder and Mars Rocks. But, since you're not, I am totally into sharing my BF... OK, he does not know this yet, but we can work on him. :09: *hugs*

You aren't foolin' me. I am not going anywhere your BFF. Hehehe. I can get my own mayun.

Man, I wish that I were bisexual. I think that this would be the time I would be dating women exclusively if I were. Hehehe.

As far as a love life is concerned...THAT is shelved. I want to have fun. Have sex. And I am weeding out the guys who are married...have girlfriends...or those gay men who have boyfriends.

Maybe I will write some more tunes and upload some more on LPSG. I have a couple now. But they are really bare. I will have time now during the holidays. I plan on taking my four-track up to my sister's place Christmas and do some recording. I am bringing my guitar and my laptop. I am going to try and do some Prince type retro funk songs. I have some Linn Drum sounds (the drum sounds Prince used in Purple Rain and on 1999) in my laptop that I could rock that out.

Mars Rox are addictive. My sidewinder...well. You may find it in grocery store tabloids. Martha Stewart, Rachael Ray and my sidewinder are all in a feud. What a sex tape!!! Hehehe. PEREZ HILTON ain't gunna get it.

 

[invisibleman]

Hello, Roofies, you sploolicious thing you. Luved the pun! (Dear in the headlights)

Hello Milf n' Roofies.

I try to put it in a language you (along with others) would understand. Hehehe. :wink:

I hope you are still workin' out those "magic wands", Hermoine.

 

[invisibleman]

Oh dear - I hate reading or hearing that - it's sad that you feel that way. You're letting one person's bad behaviour colour your impression of everyone else. HickBoy has said to me a couple of times that he wonders how my ex hasn't put me off men entirely. My answer is always the same, "My ex isn't 'men' he's 'a man'". My experience with him has put me off him - but I don't let it effect how I interact with Hick, that would be unfair on Hick.

When you fall off a horse you've got to get right back on, or else you become afraid of falling off everytime. Besides, just think of all the riding you're missing out on.

Yeah. I hear you. You are right. I am slowly coming around though. Holidays are stressful anyhoo.

I haven't fallen off any horses. I have never ridden a horse in my life.
:smile:What kind of size queen do you think I am?:smile:
No horses here. Hehehe. That would be a "horse of a different Jerry Springer episode". :biggrin1:

 

[Not_Punny]

meh, shit happens.
i'd kick him out, tell him i'll call him when his stuff is boxed & ready to go and then buy i'd new shoes.

You'd wait that long to get new shoes?!

 

[Not_Punny]

Hello Milf n' Roofies.

I try to put it in a language you (along with others) would understand. Hehehe. :wink:

I hope you are still workin' out those "magic wands", Hermoine.

LOL, I thought only men had magic wands... :biggrin1:

 

[invisibleman]

LOL, I thought only men had magic wands... :biggrin1:

Uh, women can play with magic wands but they can own a Nimbus 2000.

 

[invisibleman]

Maybe I'm just weird, because I really don't think I'd care all that much, maybe I'd be a little pissed that I wasn't warned so I could at the very least not accidentally interrupt?

If I came home and found him with another woman though, I'd happily kill them both, and I wouldn't make it quick.

I wouldn't kill anyone I loved. I wouldn't hurt their "lovers on the side".

(There are exceptions...there would be cases where I would probably kill. Exceptions in a nutshell: He/They would have to attempt to kill me first and I survive.)

I had fun just whupping my ex's ass.

I did a lot for that guy over six years. And two months of asking him what the problem was...and him not telling me and I find out like that-- was pretty much an offense.

 

[PrincessBlueEyez]

I actually walked in on a bf in college doing that, I had no idea he was bi/gay, and i walk into his room and there he is with a guy on top so yeh i was just like wtf, and walked out, never talked to the guy again.

Call me crazy but I dont date bi guys and I dont stay with guys that cheat on me, with guys or girls, and im not the ass beating type, im the never talk to you again throw your stuff out on the lawn and light it on fire type :angryfire2:

If you wanna sleep with someone else, just tell me, we'll break up, and both go our merry ways

 

[D_Martin van Burden]

I don't have any experience of this, but a couple of my straight friends have been cheated on when their girlfriends decided to date women. As far as I know, they weren't caught in the act; and at first, the guys took it to be a bit of a blow either because, dammit, they wanted in on that or it's not like they could do anything about having the wrong equipment. They just got over it and moved on to the next. Sounds like the ladies here have the same idea. Once you get over the initial shock, it's not like there's anything they could do about it.

 

[invisibleman]

I actually walked in on a bf in college doing that, I had no idea he was bi/gay, and i walk into his room and there he is with a guy on top so yeh i was just like wtf, and walked out, never talked to the guy again.

I bet that is unsettling. You are lucky you didn't have a Flip ULTRA camcorder. You could've put it on YouTube.

Call me crazy but I dont date bi guys and I dont stay with guys that cheat on me, with guys or girls, and im not the ass beating type...

Good for you.

...im the "never talk to you again...throw your stuff out on the lawn and light it on fire" type :angryfire2:

Gay guys, who go for straight guys, will have to deal with their trick's girlfriends and wives burning your shit up. Grillmarks and char on your Dolce and Gabbana ensemble.


If you wanna sleep with someone else, just tell me, we'll break up, and both go our merry ways.

That is called honesty.

But you know how some are. They want the cheesecake front and center with the meatloaf on the side.

 

[SnitchQitch]

i encourage my man to do it(only with a man).... i doubt he ever will..... LOL

 

[B_blackrabbit]

maybe your pissed that you couldnt give him what he needed?

 

[PrincessBlueEyez]

That is called honesty.

But you know how some are. They want the cheesecake front and center with the meatloaf on the side.

Lol, id have hurled if Id stayed around to video it, and yeh honesty is the most important thing with me, if you want to do something, tell me, and we'll go from there

 

[Sergeant_Torpedo]

Get over it

 

[D_Kaye Throttlebottom]

I will tell you what I did to my ex when he cheated on me. I whupped my ex's ass in front of the guy he fucked on me with.
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Did you use a golf-club?
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How would you feel about gay guys or bisexuals wanting your man?

Wanting him would not bother me. Disrespecting my relationship and making advances to him, knowing I'm in the picture would piss me off, just as much as a woman would. My ex-boyfriend tried hooking up with a german stripper behind my back and it was poetic justice when she turned him down, because she was more interested in me. Ah karma.

 

[invisibleman]

Did you use a golf-club?

No. I used my fists. I wouldn't use a golf club. As that would be unfair.
Besides, golf clubs are for pussies.

 

[invisibleman]

maybe your pissed that you couldnt give him what he needed?

No. That wasn't the case. I don't have dick insecurity. None whatsoever.

I was pissed off that he wasn't honest and he changed the rules. He could've told me. He wanted monogamy. I wasn't expecting any of this. Had I totally known... I wouldn't have bothered helping him with refurbishing his place. He could've let his lovers help him.