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Stretch marks add character, I only ask that if ur riding my face go easy with my ears!

Stretch marks don't just add character, they're fun to run your hands over and they're notoriously soft. I used to be a bit weirded out about them, but as I've been exposed to them, I've come to think they're quite an asset.
 

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Dear mean with little pot-bellies. I know you hate the word cute being used to describe you, but I think your little tumm-tumm is sooo cute! I love to squeeze it while we're kissing or when I hug you from behind. It's the perfect perch for my head when I'm lazily sucking your dick on a hot afternoon, or a great spot to rest my head after giving you a vigorous blow-job, and basking in the pleasure of my full mouth. I don't think it's unattractive at all. There was a time when it was a feature I actively sought. True story.

My sweet wife is the same. Always telling me how much she loves my "tummy". She is getting more than a little upset that I'm losing weight lol.

(Word to the wise, don't lose weight quicker than your wife, you may create some anxiety. Atleast it is happening to me...)

@Dolfette

Thank you for this thread. It really is heart warming to read. Only because I know that there are so many guys, myself recently excluded, who are ridden with angst over such issues that rarely get attention. I'm not sure what prompted you, but I'm thankful you were.

P.s. Stretchmarks will never ever be mentioned. As far as I'm concerned they are just part of the landscape and do not detract from beauty at all. I actively sought out women who were on the plump side, meaning they usually had a few marks, because of how pleasurable their skin and body feel. Its amazing the things we find pleasurable to the touch that may or may not be so visually pleasurable. So I say, fuck the visual. Enjoy the skin. Its a wonderful playground.
 

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dear men with scars,

you might feel self conscious, you might feel marred, you might feel ugly... especially if they're on your face.
but... well... i LOVE them! no, really, i love them. i want to touch them. i want to test the texture on my lips.
it's a freaky perversion perhaps. i can't help it!

ok, i know i'm on the extreme end of the scale, but most of my gal pals have confessed to finding scars sexy too. don't ask us why because we don't know.

you think i'm looking because i'm staring at the freak show? no, i'm looking because i'm kinky. you're not ugly, you're just a different sort of sexy.
 

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you think i'm looking because i'm staring at the freak show? no, i'm looking because i'm kinky. you're not ugly, you're just a different sort of sexy.

first of all, thank you very much for this thread, its a great idea and i'm sure it will give hope for lots of men out there (as it gave for me)!

scars... i'm glad you've mentioned them and its great to hear an opinion like that. i do have a lot, small scars but really a LOT, my upper body looks like i've fought in a war and a bomb exploded right next to me. the weird thing is, that i really like them and alwasy thought they were sexy, but till this day never met a girl who shared this opinion. most girls were nice and said "the scars don't bother me, they're fine" but none of them actually thought they were sexy and i was bit disappointed. so i'm really glad to hear what you've said!


Any guys have a letter for girls with weird feet?

i'm not a foot freak but i do find women's feet sexy, and i can tell you that 95% of the feet out there are already sexy the way they are or at least have the "potential" to be sexy. you have weird feet? great, i love them. i love the traditional beauties but if they have something "freakish" its a great turn on as well! its a bit like what dolfette said about the small penis guys --> its more about attitude. i don't like it if a girl hides her feet from me or if i can sense she hates them. but if she shows them, wears flip-flops, puts them in my lap while we are wathing tv, touches my leg (or maybe something else :wink:) with them under the table in public, ... i totally go crazy, even if you may not win on the prettiest-feet-of-the-world contest.
 

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fuck off :smile:

Ok, I'm hard now. All is right in the world again.

dear men with scars...

This actually made me smile. I have a huge scar on my left rib cage and another one on my right hip. Reminds me of the saying, "Pain heals. Chicks dig scars. Glory lasts forever."
 

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Beautiful post.

This should be for every man - please, stop obsessing about your cocks. Put that energy into being a better person - see where that gets you.
 

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Scars, hell yes. I found out this week that an internet friend on the other side of the world was in a big car accident, and I'm offering what support I can through chat and emails. He's lonely and scared and has months and months of rehabilitation ahead of him, but dammit, I just want to know if he's got new scars.
 

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Dear men without a job,

You were not a mechanic, a banker, a teacher, a coach, a short-order cook. You were a man with a job; it did not define you. Now that it's gone, are you less of a man? If you never had a job yet, if you're fresh from earning a useless degree, are you sub-human? No! Have you seen the news lately? Have you seen how crowded the unemployment offices are? Have you not run into your former co-workers in waiting rooms for the same interviews? The world economy is depressed. If you are working hard to be self-sufficient, have a plan, still have a vision for yourself, and the will to implement it, you're okay by me. Let me go over your resume. Let me practice interviewing with you. I am great at mimicking those horrible stress interviews. And stop by for supper every once n a while. There's no shame in letting a woman feed you from time to time. You'll find work when the work gets found. In the mean time, you're still a man.
 

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re: Dolfette.....

I think I'm in love.... :hail:

Seriously, that was one of the most beautiful, well-thought posts I think I've ever read.
 

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Dear men without a job,

You were not a mechanic, a banker, a teacher, a coach, a short-order cook. You were a man with a job; it did not define you. Now that it's gone, are you less of a man? If you never had a job yet, if you're fresh from earning a useless degree, are you sub-human? No! Have you seen the news lately? Have you seen how crowded the unemployment offices are? Have you not run into your former co-workers in waiting rooms for the same interviews? The world economy is depressed. If you are working hard to be self-sufficient, have a plan, still have a vision for yourself, and the will to implement it, you're okay by me. Let me go over your resume. Let me practice interviewing with you. I am great at mimicking those horrible stress interviews. And stop by for supper every once n a while. There's no shame in letting a woman feed you from time to time. You'll find work when the work gets found. In the mean time, you're still a man.


*Slow clap* Seriously, touching. Its tough for guys. Always having to be the provider according to society. Thankfully that is changing but it is a lot of pressure. When I left the service I was out of a job for atleast 6 months, and I'll tell ya what. Its awful easy to fall into the pity party routine. Jumped around for a bit, but always had a supporting lady. Luckily found her less than a month after getting out. Without her and her supporting words much like yours it would've been a much more difficult task. Thank whomever for women like my wife and you. =]
 

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Dear mean with little pot-bellies. I know you hate the word cute being used to describe you, but I think your little tumm-tumm is sooo cute! I love to squeeze it while we're kissing or when I hug you from behind. It's the perfect perch for my head when I'm lazily sucking your dick on a hot afternoon, or a great spot to rest my head after giving you a vigorous blow-job, and basking in the pleasure of my full mouth. I don't think it's unattractive at all. There was a time when it was a feature I actively sought. True story.

From what I can see, cooking like that would keep my little pot belly happy and around for a while ;)
 

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au contraire!

hairy man, some of us love nothing better than to snuggle up against chest fur, or too feel it tickling our nipples as our breasts swing against it.
some of us like to stroke it, or twiddle our fingers around in it.
some of us like that it looks so manly and raw.

i know plenty of women who appreciate hairy men.
 

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Dolfette your post is 100% true! I've been with dicks of all sizes and ill tell you what, the guys with the smaller ones were the best lovers id ever had cause they took the time to stimulate me and not just thinking id be instantly wet cause they had a big dick!
 

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au contraire!

hairy man, some of us love nothing better than to snuggle up against chest fur, or too feel it tickling our nipples as our breasts swing against it.
some of us like to stroke it, or twiddle our fingers around in it.
some of us like that it looks so manly and raw.

i know plenty of women who appreciate hairy men.


I used to think it was just ego soothing but I have come across more than a fair share of women that do love a hairy guy. Different strokes for different folks.