Dear women of LPSG

Discussion in 'Women's Issues' started by hung_10, Jan 27, 2011.

  1. hung_10

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    I happened to look in the gallery section and relized there are ALOT of really sexy beautiful women who never seem to post alot.I know some of these are fakes ect. But I came here for the girls..lol this big dicked hetro LOVES women so ladies help a guy out..I wanna hear what YOU think and feel and want and love! xoxoxoxHung
     
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    And ladies..LPSG has video chat..you will get an eyeful and a smile from all us pervs over there! viva fun!
     
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    I used to be a lot more active on the forums, and I'm working on getting back into that, but I'm a fairly frequent visitor on the chat. Just because you may not have encountered us, there are a lot of active ladies on the site, honestly.
     
  4. Daisy

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    if it seems too good to be true..it usually is:wink:

    a lot of the very quiet hot girls are probably not girls. Some are just voyeurs and want to look at the penises. Some are shy. Some have issues going on.

    Its doubtful that you can "lure them out" :smile:
     
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    well, i'm sure you remember me? i may not post a lot but I am on the chat room often enough :) and yes, i do get more love than i can take sometimes :tongue:
     
  6. FeroxFemina

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    I don't always have the time available that I'd like to spend on this site but when I do I split my time between chat and forums. I don't post for the sake of it, but rather comment on things I find meaningful and get my opinion across when I feel it's necessary.

    As for going into Video chat, I can only speak for myself when I say that I get harrassed quite a bit in chat. I get constant private chat requests from people I've never spoken to; they argue that they want to get to know me in private, but when 20+ guys are doing it it's rather annoying and slows down my computer.

    You'll probably say that I should be flattered, but some of the guys just want to cam, or have me talk dirty to them. That's not something I like to do with a complete stranger.

    This brings me to your request 'I wanna hear what YOU think and feel and want and love!'

    What I think:
    I think the guys here who are looking for meet women should not focus so much on their penis and it's dimensions. Instead let the ladies get to know the person. Your penis may be an issue for you, but it's not for us. Countless times in chat I have been asked 'what do you think of it?' 'is it big?' 'do you like the head?' 'how about the width?' etc etc etc. I cam with a few of my friends on here and I have never once said What do you think of my clit? Is it big enough for you? How about my lips? Do they look nice? Are my areola the right shape? Are my breasts the same size?
    If you want to impress me (and I can only talk about myself as the opinions of others is not something I can speculate on), then let me get to know the person, not the dick.

    What I feel:
    I feel like there are a lot of timewasters on this site. I am more likely to spend my time getting to know someone who is:-
    1) Verified. This shows me that they put in the time and effort to take a pic and get verification.
    2) Has an avatar. What you choose as an avatar says something about you. For example, mine is a piece by Luis Royo, a fantasy artist. I love fantasy and escape. There are countless members without avatars and to me they seem like bots with no personality (just my opinion, don't harrass me over it)
    3) Post in the forums, not much, just a little. This shows that, again, you are putting in the effort. If you talk to me in chat and I check out your profile and you have no avatar, no pics, no verification, have been a member for over a year and have never posted, then it doesn't tell me much about you and I find you less interesting compared to the next guy who comes along and has done all of those things.

    What I Want?
    I want to meet people on here who I can really talk to. Not just sex. Other things too with both males and females, straight, gay and bi.

    What I Love?
    I love when I meet someone I connect with and become friends with on here. Someone I can chat to and have fun with.
     
  7. Daisy

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    Well said!
     
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    FeroxFemina -- You have succinctly listed what I have started to learn during my short time on lpsg. Thank you for the words of wisdom.
     
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    You're welcome anytime x :)
     
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    Great feedback! me thanks you all!
     
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    okay here it goes. everytime I get involved with this kind of question I always manage to offend someone. so let me preface my statement by saying that I respect everybody's right to think and feel whatever they want. also, I'm not trying to convince anyone to change her mind. I honestly and forthrightly want to know; if you agree with all or most of foxfemina's very well written and succinct reply, then why come to a website dedicated to large penises? foxfemina, why not go to a website dedicated to fantasy art? again, I'm not trying to defend people who harass, or suggest that people aren't welcome to discuss whatever they like. I just think that its a little incongruous to come to a website that has the words Large Penis in the title and then get offended if someone wants to discuss large penises.

    teasing temptress, you know I think you're awesome.
     
  12. FeroxFemina

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    Hungy, I completely understand where you are coming from and now see that I am coming across as a hypocrit.

    Let's start with why I'm on this site. I found it by accident, I can't even remember how... I was watching online porn and one site led to another, then another and then I was here.

    I viewed the forums as a guest and then became a member and then verified myself to get more access.

    For me, this site has been a place where I can ask questions, debate topics (sex or otherwise) and not feel ashamed or embarrassed... for example my thread on G spot, A spots etc.

    Large Penis is in the title, but so is Support Group. Men come here and ask 'am I big enough' 'my gf has bad bigger guys and I feel like I don't measure up' etc etc. In those cases I put in my opinion which is to honestly say that size does not matter... my opinion, can't comment on the whole female race.

    In those situations I hope that my input makes those guys feel better about themselves. Other times I help out with issues like guys who don't know how to initiate the idea of trying anal with their new gf, or what sex toy to buy their partner for the first time without scaring them. In that sense, I am here for the Support Group part of this site, not for Large Penises.

    Could I joina fantasy forum, yes, I could. But I didn't mean by what I said that I am looking to meet fellow fantasy lovers. What I was trying to say to Hung_10 was that I prefer the members on here, who choose to contact me, to have put in a little bit of effort.

    When you first meet someone do you automatically get a first impression? Well, on this site, someones Avatar, their verification status, how long they've been here and how involved they are, are all ways in which I gain an impression.

    I don't automatically ignore someone without an avatar, it simply creates another avenue for me to get to know them.

    This site has something for everyone. I was simply answering Hung_10's question of what women think, feel, want and love.

    P.S. No offence taken at all. I completely appreciate your point.
     
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    Agreed:smile:

    After the first month or so it becomes boring. The guys that talk about interesting things besides their penis remain interesting, the others fade away. There's nothing wrong with someone wanting to show their penis off. It doesn't offend me, but I'm hidden because I got tired of it. I enjoy the site. I've made great online friends male and female. There are women here who chat and cam. I'm not chatting or anything else with someone who doesn't interest me. The most interesting guy I've met here rarely talks about his penis.

    I have people that I exchange porn with as well :) We talk about nothing but the break down of porn and which ones are interesting, why we think they suck etc etc. Other people I talk about nothing but music with. Others we share some real life stuff... just because the forum has the word "penis" in the title doesn't mean everything is about the penis.
     
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    I find your signature interesting hungy. I have no problem talking about sex... it's just the way that someone goes about it.

    For example in chat if someone starts with 'Hi', followed by things like how are you? what brought you to the site? etc etc, I am likely to talk to them whether that means sexual fun or not.

    On the other hand if someone jumps straight in with 'hey baby, wanna see my cock?' I am not the least bit interested.
     
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    I know what youre saying. It seems about a year ago there was a strong male bashing/female pity party vibe going on. I was usually the first one to say what you just said, essentially "why are you here?" I think if women want to lurk or look at big dicks theyre perfectly welcome to do that. As soon as it becomes a "poor me, I'm a victim" I think it's time to find another website.

    The question was asked though, why arent women more vocal and she just answered honestly. Had she started a new thread bemoaning all of the injustice here then you might be prompted to ask "why are you here then?"

    I think she's just explaining why she isnt more active. I have always said if you find the people here that disturbing or the chat room too offensive then yes, find another site. You will know when you've reached your limit as some of the girls here have (and left).
     
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    Not all the women are here because they want a large penis or they're looking for a large penis. I already have a large penis and it is attached to the man I fell in love with. Not being a size queen, I don't have a lot of previous experience with large penises and we've had quite a few problems in bed, an obstacle, if you will. That's why I'm here. I ask for help and I help when I can. I've also made a lot of friends here, so when I am in the chat room, I'm typically talking to them and it's usually not about penises. Believe it or not, you can run out of things to say about penises, and then you end up talking about other things. Like submissivegirl said, looking at penises does get old after about a month, and I also enjoy talking to people who have other things to talk about much more.
     
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    Wanna see my cock?

    My Cock ) :biggrin1:
     
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    If I was with someone who wore that ^, I think I'd run a mile!
     
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    thanks for the feed back!
     
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    Thank you for writing everything that I kept thinking.
    I really enjoy going to the chat as I can meet so many people. but I hate it when guys start comparing themselves, "who else are you looking at? whose cock is bigger?" and it gets even weirder when a man with a small penis telling me to look at his cam and then asked if I was laughing at the size. wtf??
    honestly, most of the time I look at cams is when it shows the man's face. So i can look at his expression as we chat, him smiling when I make joke, him looking bored or sleepy.. its so much more entertaining than looking at a cock. but well, it usually helps if the man is my type.. :)
    and also, it gets pretty annoying when someone keep requesting for private chat and calls me out when I keep denying it. like you said, it slows down the connection and all. so, I usually stay on the main chat and only private with one or two men who keeps me interested.
    And I love getting female friends too. lets be friends! :cool:


    hungy, firstly, thanks for that little shoutout. haha you're sweet :redface:

    and second, well, I am aware its a site dedicated to dicks and yes, I enjoy looking at them but what I dont like is when a man ask me to describe about it to them. what is there to say? Mmm yes, its hard. its long and thick..??? :dunno: and when I dont like his cock, what should i do then? lie? or just tell him that "mmm yea, I dont really like it" ? :confused:

    LOL nice one :You_Rock_Emoticon:
     
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