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Dear woman who feels insecure about something,

How many times have you told someone you care about or perhaps love, that something about which they feel insecure is "fine just the way it is?" Maybe they worry they are overweight, are starting to lose their hair or have too small a penis, or whatever. When you reassure them you want them to believe you... to know that you are sincere. To feel good about themselves. That even though they may not be society's definition of physical perfection you love them; really love them. We feel the same way towards you. Here is why...

It's not about your less than pearly white teeth that are not so perfectly aligned. It's about your smile and how your smile lifts my spirits every time. It's about watching you enjoy yourself, feeling good, having fun and laughing. When you are smiling, everything in that moment is good!

It's not about the color of your eyes or the fact that you need glasses. It's about watching your eyes light up with joy, widen in anticipation, gleam with pride and seeing that special spark in your eyes when you have something sexy on your mind. Your eyes are beautiful! They were the first thing I ever noticed about you. Honestly. By the way, you were smiling at the time!

It's not about your hands needing a little extra lotion these days. It's about the strength I feel in them, the things they can create, the reassurance I feel when you hold me with them, the thrill I get when you touch me there... yeah, you know where!

It's not about your smaller than you think I wish they were breasts, or those stretch marks you think you need to cover up, or your pudgier than it used to be tummy or larger than you wish it was behind. It's about how at those moments when I am touching you my hands, aw hell, all of me, suddenly comes alive. Please relax and enjoy those moments with me. In between those moments, know that I will be looking at your eyes and watching you smile and holding your hand... ok, I'll be checking out your behind too! And, I will be looking forward to more of those moments I mentioned a minute ago.

It's about all the things you are, not the parts you're made from.

I wish you would see yourself the way I see you. You are beautiful to me.
 

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I was trying to think of a proper 'dear women' but all I could think of was something that happened a few weeks ago.

Me and my fiancee were supposed to meet up at the gym after work. I got there half an hour early and as I was walking from the parking lot I saw a sexy redhead waiting around the entrance, As I approached I thought 'wow, she's hot', but then as I got closer I realised, 'oh wait, that's g (my fiancee)!'. I told g about this about this expecting a telling off but she was delighted that even when I didn't know it was her I still found her hot... This surprised me, I just assumed she knew I thought she was hot at all times....

All I suppose I'm saying is 'guys, don't assume they know how you feel' and 'girls, guys are rubbish, don't give up hope too soon'
 

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That happens to me all the time with my wife, when we're shopping. I'll see her across the store and go, "wow!" And then I get closer or put on my glasses and realize it's her.

She digs it. So do I. :cool:
 

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Very sweet guys....... I do not consider myself tiny but smaller breasted, and potbelly? Nah, I am rockin my beergut! Lol

Bonnie, your photos show you're beautiful with gorgeous breasts! There's no such thing as breasts that are "too small". Every woman has their own chest and it is part of what makes them unique and wonderful. How boring would the world be if every woman had the same set of breasts?

I've dated women from the flattest A to DD and loved them all. Not once did I think "I won't date her because she's too big/small." The petite Asian girl with the A-cup could be so painfully self-conscious when women showing cleavage were around, I don't know if she ever really believed that it didn't matter. In fact she probably had the most sensitive nipples I've experienced that hardened so deliciously when we made love.

Big breasts don't ensure great sex anymore than a big penis does. Take pride in what you have!
 

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Bonnie, your photos show you're beautiful with gorgeous breasts! There's no such thing as breasts that are "too small". Every woman has their own chest and it is part of what makes them unique and wonderful. How boring would the world be if every woman had the same set of breasts?

I've dated women from the flattest A to DD and loved them all. Not once did I think "I won't date her because she's too big/small." The petite Asian girl with the A-cup could be so painfully self-conscious when women showing cleavage were around, I don't know if she ever really believed that it didn't matter. In fact she probably had the most sensitive nipples I've experienced that hardened so deliciously when we made love.

Big breasts don't ensure great sex anymore than a big penis does. Take pride in what you have!

Thank you, I am happy with my body. (obviously, I have no problems showing it) but I appreciate what you said. No matter my body, I know what I can do and who I am.... :) but, thank you for making me smile on this Icy Indy day!
 

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Dear pre-op trans women

You are beautiful women with the fire and passion in your heart that matches any genetic women so love yourself.
 

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Dear women who dont suck dick,

im very disappointed in you. i wont date you. someone will. be joyous, because i do somewhat understand. i dont want a dick in my mouth neither. maybe you should try a pussy? It did wonders for me.

Sincerely

Unnamed
 

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Dear women who dont suck dick,

im very disappointed in you. i wont date you. someone will. be joyous, because i do somewhat understand. i dont want a dick in my mouth neither. maybe you should try a pussy? It did wonders for me.

Sincerely

Unnamed

sweetheart you don't have to put up with that find a woman that serves you the way you like.
 

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Dear women with wit and intelligence...

You totally rock.

I find you sexier than any perfect-bodied hottie. Your ability to see and understand the world, and to engage in clever and reasonable dialogue without feeling your ego threatened, is the height of attractiveness. Bantering with you earns profound respect from those around you with the brains to know how talented you are. I always learn from you, and for that I am grateful.

Your sharp, sophisticated humor is infectious. I can tell you are fun in bed without taking everything, especially yourself, so seriously. You deserve some serious, sensual oral. Let's get naked.
 

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I know a good few witty, intelligent 'perfect-bodied hotties' who would be well offended by that, OG. The implication that the two are somehow exclusive pisses me off, too.

Wit and intelligence are good things and I'm not sure I know anyone who feels insecure about them. Yeah, some young women might feel odd being the geeky girl but that's not the same thing. I find your choices of words weird.
 

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I know a good few witty, intelligent 'perfect-bodied hotties' who would be well offended by that, OG. The implication that the two are somehow exclusive pisses me off, too.

Wit and intelligence are good things and I'm not sure I know anyone who feels insecure about them. Yeah, some young women might feel odd being the geeky girl but that's not the same thing. I find your choices of words weird.

Actually, I've had relationships with people who made me feel awkward for being intelligent, and in one relationship he regularly tried to verbally hammer me into the ground every time I spoke intelligently, just because he couldn't bear to lose a discussion.

So while I agree with the first part of your post, I LOVED OG's Dear Women with wit and intelligence.

Thank you OG *hugs*

And thank you to all the other guys who are writing beautiful things.

Nia, yours was beautiful too!
 
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Fair enough, and I'm sorry I offended you, MB. That was certainly not my intention. But I've seen enough exasperated female wingmen watching their hotter, less intelligent and witty friends get hit on by all the guys, while they sit there invisible.

That's who I meant. I find them infinitely more interesting than the pretty but shallow types most guys all roll in on like a pack of wolves.
 

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Thanks OG. And sub, don't get me wrong - I'm not saying it doesn't happen, I've been in the situation where a guy has approached me (based on my look I have to assume) but after talking to me for a few minutes has said something along the lines of 'du-huh, you're too clever for me!' - I get a kick out of it. That's me, I don't expect all women to - it was mainly the hot perfection is the opposite of wit and intelligence that bugged, for which OG has graciously apologised.
 

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Dear women who have been sexually abused.
I know you may think I will leave you if you tell me I wont.
You may think i think less of you but I dont. I will stay with you and love you as long as you let me. It doesn't make you any less of a women nor does it make you less attractive to me.

Ill hold you when you need me to and give you space when you require it. But my arms will always be there to remind you that i care and will be there as long as you want me to be.
 

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Actually, I've had relationships with people who made me feel awkward for being intelligent, and in one relationship he regularly tried to verbally hammer me into the ground every time I spoke intelligently, just because he couldn't bear to lose a discussion.

So while I agree with the first part of your post, I LOVED OG's Dear Women with wit and intelligence.

Thank you OG *hugs*

And thank you to all the other guys who are writing beautiful things.

Nia, yours was beautiful too!
You're welcome, subgirrl. Hot and intelligent or plain and intelligent beat hot and dim anytime. I find intelligent, witty women the most alluring of all. Looks are so secondary.

Incidentally, smart women are better in bed. And I don't care who gets offended by that comment. :wink:
 

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Thanks OG. And sub, don't get me wrong - I'm not saying it doesn't happen, I've been in the situation where a guy has approached me (based on my look I have to assume) but after talking to me for a few minutes has said something along the lines of 'du-huh, you're too clever for me!' - I get a kick out of it. That's me, I don't expect all women to - it was mainly the hot perfection is the opposite of wit and intelligence that bugged, for which OG has graciously apologised.
:kiss:
 

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Thanks OG. And sub, don't get me wrong - I'm not saying it doesn't happen, I've been in the situation where a guy has approached me (based on my look I have to assume) but after talking to me for a few minutes has said something along the lines of 'du-huh, you're too clever for me!' - I get a kick out of it. That's me, I don't expect all women to - it was mainly the hot perfection is the opposite of wit and intelligence that bugged, for which OG has graciously apologised.

They'd never get the 'too clever' impression from talking to me for a few minutes :tongue:. I tend to talk (and write posts!) . . . lazily and without much cleverness. The clever part only really comes out once you've known me a while and start hearing me talk in depth about stuff.

A FB once said that he always believed I was smarter than I acted, and that if he hadn't he wouldn't have been interested in me. He actually thought I was doing the dumb act as a cover up for being smart, when in fact, it was just me being me :tongue:.