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Call me cynical but I tend to view threads of this sort with suspicion, when anyone dies I'm sure going on the net telling a large penis site that they're dead is way down on the list of family priorities, if any of us were to die how many of us have families who are aware we're here in any case.

I've been on the net a long time and the amount of times I've seen someone fake their own death is appalling, but having said that anyone who does fake their own death must be psychologically disturbed, so if the post is true I extend my condolences on a young life ended too soon, if it isn't true you need to seek medical help.
 

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Call me cynical but I tend to view threads of this sort with suspicion, when anyone dies I'm sure going on the net telling a large penis site that they're dead is way down on the list of family priorities, if any of us were to die how many of us have families who are aware we're here in any case.

I've been on the net a long time and the amount of times I've seen someone fake their own death is appalling, but having said that anyone who does fake their own death must be psychologically disturbed, so if the post is true I extend my condolences on a young life ended too soon, if it isn't true you need to seek medical help.


I totally agree with SP..and this is not the first time this has happened on this site...
 

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Call me cynical but I tend to view threads of this sort with suspicion, when anyone dies I'm sure going on the net telling a large penis site that they're dead is way down on the list of family priorities, if any of us were to die how many of us have families who are aware we're here in any case.

I agree with your sentiments but disagree at the same time. You cannot put everyone in the same boat. I've been a member here for just over a year. My partner joined two months ago. Prior to him joining he knew I spent a lot of time here and how much I love the place. Had anything have happened to me I know that he would have posted to tell people.

It's natural to be suspicious of interenet personas but when something bad like this is posted it's always best to give the benefit of the doubt. The old addage of "the truth will out" is very true.

To the OP please accept my condolences. I hope that you and your family find peace.
 

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Folks, though we have had instances of individuals playing on the sympathies of others, when in doubt please give the benefit of the doubt. You never know when it might really be true.

Very nicely said, naughty. While one can always express anger for a false post later, false accusations, especially during such a painful time, can never be taken back.

It's such a tragedy and loss, especially when it involves someone so young who could have achieved so much in their life. And to those left behind to deal with the pain and questions, I pray you find peace and comfort in friends and loved ones.
 

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What would I gain by making this up, Steve? If I had at all expected this kind of response, I wouldn't have said anything at all. She was really did exist, and knew people through the chatrooms here. Learn to show more respect in the future!


how did you come about this information...do you have a copy of the obit...or death notice? just curious...
 

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Hey Davey, that's your partner who knows you're on here as he should because a relationship should be based on honesty, however, do you tell your siblings you're on here? The op was her brother and I certainly wouldn't let my brothers know I used this site. Sorry, I am cynical I've just seen this sort of thing too many times.
 

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how did you come about this information...do you have a copy of the obit...or death notice? just curious...

What is it to you? Just leave it Arliss. It says quite clearly in the first post that he is her brother. It's safe to assume that he would have been among the first to have been told and not found out from reading an obit notice.
 

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Hey Davey, that's your partner who knows you're on here as he should because a relationship should be based on honesty, however, do you tell your siblings you're on here? The op was her brother and I certainly wouldn't let my brothers know I used this site. Sorry, I am cynical I've just seen this sort of thing too many times.

I don't have any siblings but to be honest with you I'd like to think that if I did I would tell them about my life and my interests. I apreciate that a lot of people wouldn't. Let's not detract from what this thread is about. :wink:
 

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Ahem, dude - read his first post. batgirl was his sister...

well fuck my brother and call me Mammy ..how the hell did I miss that...being so suspicious I do suppose.....now as I wa saying..umm horseboy ..can you scan a death ntice for us or maybe a Mass card..something as proof..since you have been taken to task
 

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Hey Davey, that's your partner who knows you're on here as he should because a relationship should be based on honesty, however, do you tell your siblings you're on here? The op was her brother and I certainly wouldn't let my brothers know I used this site. Sorry, I am cynical I've just seen this sort of thing too many times.

Hi, Spoiled Princess. My little sister knows about this site and a D/s one that I am a member of. I have one brother who knows very personal things, although I haven't brought up LPSG as of yet, and one brother who I would never tell.

In fact, my sister is just one of several people who, upon my death, are to get to my house before my parents and remove all traces of porn! My parents have learned to never ask about any books or packages I send her......:wink:
 

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well fuck my brother and call me Mammy ..how the hell did I miss that...being so suspicious I do suppose.....now as I wa saying..umm horseboy ..can you scan a death ntice for us or maybe a Mass card..something as proof..since you have been taken to task
Yes, that would be helpful, especially since I'm sure the obit would include "a.k.a. 'batgirl' in her online activities." :rolleyes:
 

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Hey Davey, that's your partner who knows you're on here as he should because a relationship should be based on honesty, however, do you tell your siblings you're on here? The op was her brother and I certainly wouldn't let my brothers know I used this site. Sorry, I am cynical I've just seen this sort of thing too many times.

As a note SP - my mom knows I post on here. :biggrin1:

well fuck my brother and call me Mammy ..how the hell did I miss that...being so suspicious I do suppose.....now as I wa saying..umm horseboy ..can you scan a death ntice for us or maybe a Mass card..something as proof..since you have been taken to task

Please tell me you're joking, A... :eek::confused:
 

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well fuck my brother and call me Mammy ..how the hell did I miss that...being so suspicious I do suppose.....now as I wa saying..umm horseboy ..can you scan a death ntice for us or maybe a Mass card..something as proof..since you have been taken to task

LOL. I didn't see that either.

Actually I think he is Her Brother, Her Father and one of her children.