Decibel levels and the male orgasm

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  1. burns1de

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    Hello ladies,

    I was wondering something (which might have been covered in an earlier thread, but I'm too lazy to look it up) - do you like it when your partner cums loudly?

    I'm asking this because I think I'm a very loud cummer (think Lexington Steele but with more grunting) and I was curious as to what women thought of male screamers like me. :smile:
     
  2. ManlyBanisters

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    I've had a fair few loud male partners - some of whom were just loud generally and some of who were noisy cummers. I have to say I prefered the climax noise makers.

    I'm not that noisy all the way through - I can be, if it is particularly called for - and I certainly am when the right buttons get hit - but constant noise all the way through sex is a little off-putting. Especially if you're having sex for hours rather than minutes :biggrin:

    But loud noises when cumming are very hot, both from guys and girls. It's good to know you've made your partner feel so good he/she has to shout about it.

    Cheeky question: Are you also noisy when you make yourself cum, or can you do that quietly?
     
  3. drgirth

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    I can wake the neighborhood when I cum. Before cumming, I'm more of a moaner. Hell, I even moan when I'm giving my wife oral sex. There's nothing planned in it. It's more wild abandonment.
     
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    I'm all over the map, sometimes they are incredible, but it's not that moment. I think some women have found that, not offensive, but wondering if I really enjoyed it. Which is furthest from the truth, but I'm not going to fake a moan/scream.
     
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    I love hearing a man during sex and orgasm. The moans, grunts, heavy breathing. And listening to him climax will usually make me do the same. It's so sexy to know that he is into the moment. Very hot and animalistic. Throw in some dirty talk and I am in heaven!
     
  6. burns1de

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    You're gonna like me a lot, then. :wink:
     
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    Of that I have not doubt! But then, you already know that.....:wink:
     
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    I do adore a man who is able to give a voice to his desires, whether through words, groans, grunts or other sounds. I do not appreciate forced porno talk, but natural animalistic sounds are fantastic. They also help to get me more into the moment...

    I really cannot stand a partner who is completely silent, either during sex or during orgasm. I want to know what is going on, not have it kept from me! A man should be able to feel free and let loose in every sense, during sex, vocals included.:wink:
     
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    No one likes to scream alone. The louder the better for me.
     
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    I call it the plumper-thumber cry!
     
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    I LOVE when guys do that! Especially cause I know it's not just me having a good time. :biggrin1:
     
  12. burns1de

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    Believe me when I say that there's PLENTY of us guys that love giving head to a woman...

    :32:
     
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    I'm loud, no doubt. And a dirty talker too.
     
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    My wife and I are both loud when we orgasm.
     
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    Loud is great, but I prefer just noises (gasps, moans, grunts, etc) to dirty talk.
     
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    I love a loud woman
     
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    I love a loud man.

    My ex had this theory that women go deaf during sex because I was convinced I was being quiet so his brother couldn't hear and he insisted I was screaming, moaning and talking dirty at the top of my voice.
     
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    Loud can sometimes be distracting I think. There's limits to how loud is too loud. When it's loud enough that I have to start worrying about neighbors instead of focusing on the sex, then it's too loud.

    Personally, I LOVE dirty talk. Moans, groans, gasps, etc. are also very appreciated. Screams are acceptable if kept to a minimum. We don't need to be announcing to everyone what's happening :wink:.
     
  19. burns1de

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    I know what you mean, I'm not a big fan of dirty talking. Tried it, didn't like it - it sounds almost cartoonish or comical to me, it doesn't come out of me naturally and it just feels non-genuine when I do it. I don't mind when my partners do it, but they shouldn't expect me to do the same.

    I cuss when banging, though. Fuckin' right.
     
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