Ok,here's the situation,and I've not been in one like this as long as I can recall. I'm single,and been enjoying the single life (was engaged 6 months ago). But recently, I've been talking with 2 women,and I've come to like both of them.One is a former co-worker who I went on a few casual dates with the past few months.Three weeks ago we had GREAT sex(just out of the blue) and since then we've gotten closer,the chemistry is great,and we have similiar values.Basically someone I can easily see myself in a relationship with.The thing is we both came from broken engagements and initially we only wanted it to be a physical thing,but we've since discovered there is potentially ALOT more than that between us. Second woman is actually someone I dated ten years ago in college who I recently rediscovered on myspace and we've been chatting away ever since. We live in seperate countries though(2 hours plane ride). We planned for me to visit her about some time back, and I'm supposed to see her in two weeks. We have alot of sexual chemistry(on the phone anyways) also and it's a foregone conclusion that we will have sex while I'm there.We've not seen each other since college days(late 90's). My problem is that I've grown to like them both and I see them both as relationship potential.Neither one of them know about the other,and I've not promised anything or spoken anything regarding committment,relationships etc. However,a part of me feels like I'm playing them both even though I'm not trying to be a player.I guess I'm just trying to see who's the better one for me,even though the first woman(co-worker) sort of has the advantage because we've actually spent time together. But I've strangely formed a bond with the second one just through loooong phone calls and msn chats,and of course we did date years ago. I really don't want to be in this situation,and I feel like I'm taking 2 really nice women for a ride.Am I really doing that? Is anyone in a similiar position and can shed light on it? I'm not asking who should I choose,it's more of my conscience bothering me,as I normally don't put myself in situations like this. When I meet someone, I normally put my efforts into that one person,I'm more of a relationship,one woman kinda guy.