Not for wank fodder, just another piece of inspiration. That's what about half of the topics on this site are about!
Inspiration for jerking off, though, right? That's wank fodder, Bud.
I'm down to fuck in the first date if it's casual anyway. I'm so used to compartmentalizing casual relationships, that it is hard for me to love someone if most of what we do is sex, and if we rushed to sex quickly. If I really want an opportunity to fall in love together, nothing will make me consent to sex right away. I have said as much to a few men, in plain words. "Wait. Are you sure you want this? I'm really turned on, and we can do this right now. I'll even blow you first. But I need to know what you want. If you want me to be with only you, and maybe to love you some day, we need to postpone getting too physical too fast. If we do this right now, I might never be able to love you. " I find that men who honestly want to wait don't need this speech, and tend to be better fits as partnership goes. Most men who hear the speech fuck me anyway, and are later heartbroken when I don't love them, as if I never warned them. I started giving that talk after I unintentionally hurt a few nice men. Sometimes, we're both just happy to keep it light and easy, share some laughs, experience some cool things, and get each other properly laid on a regular basis. That's so rare. I hear that men want sex, and women want love. I want both, ultimately, and find that men do too.
I've been more turned on because I can feel a man's erection against my belly, or thigh. The information I get is generally just, oh, he's excited too. But this has only increased my arousal, not changed reality, nor my mind.