Hi all... The title is kind of tongue-in cheek, but the question is serious. I have my own business (I work at home) and I find I'm constantly distracted by thoughts of sex (and romance, companionship too) and I am looking for ways to channel that energy into more constructive pursuits (paying the mortgage). I am shy, and I date infrequently, so I'm sure that's part of the problem. Still, I wish that I could put these thoughts aside for awhile, build my business (and my confidence) and only then turn my thoughts to sex and dating. Does this make any sense? I guess to put it more generally... What techniques do you use to help you think with the big head rather than the little (OK, maybe not so little for the LPSG guys) head. Women, I'm sure have the same problem, so please feel free to weigh in. I've thought of trying to find a (mostly) NSA type situation so I can just sort of get it out of the way and focus on the work at hand, but that's easier said than done for me (see the shy part above - and there really don't seem to be a lot of women really interested in that). Thanks in advance for your replies!