Decreasing sex drive

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  1. mephistopheles

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    Okay, I'm having a little trouble and I'm asking all of you guys for some thoughts.

    Lately I've been a little "off"

    I can still get and maintain an erection, but I just find myself wanting to masturbate less. Normally Id jerk off a few times a day, but now it's a lot if I jerk off maybe once a day.

    I'm having no trouble with my erection, or anything... Just wanting to masturbate less and less.

    Any thoughts?
     
  2. snoozan

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    It sounds pretty normal. It could be age, stress, mood, being busy, not getting as much exercise... lots of things. Even if there's not something obvious, sex drives don't always remain constant.

    This may sound insensitive, but I see a lot of guys post they JO 4-5-6 times a day... Where the hell do you find the time to do that?
     
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    Meph,

    Not only is your usual jack-off hand out of commission, but this time of year the lack of sunlight tends to slow the libido. There are a great deal of reasons and Snoozan covered the most usual. I wouldn't read too much into it unless you feel this way for quite a long time. An indicator of a hormonal cause is morning wood. Keep track of it. A large drop in testosterone is rare, particularly in someone your age.

    Don't worry about it and just enjoy the time off.
     
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    Yeah I wouldn't think too much of it either. I'm not too sure what that other poster meant by your jack-off hand being out of commission, but I certainly couldn't jack off much when I dislocated my shoulder :) I just really have a preference for the left hand....lol. Do make sure any medications you're taking might not be interfering with your libido, though. You don't want that to go TOO far.
     
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    Get a full hormone blood panel taken just to be sure...

    ...OB
     
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    I have noticed the same thing. Maybe it is because it is winter. I know I am always more apt to feel down in winter. I hate winter and cold. I am also under some stress due to some things that have recently happened as well. That could be part of it.

    I am like you I am just not as horny as usual. No problem getting or maintaining erections either just a decrease in sex drive. I always feel hornier when the spring comes and we get the first warm spell.

    Maybe I just noticed this more this winter. We had a mild fall here and I had a month or more of the horniest I have ever been in my life. It may be that a more normal period just feels low after that. I too have had a high sex drive and have wondered at times over the years if it was a blessing or a curse. I know now it was a blessing and I hope it can continue for a lot more years. At 45 I am not so young anymore.
     
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    I have posted on this subject before. Get a blood work-up including a PSA. If your testosterone count is low, ask your doctor about testosterone therapy. It works!!! I am one of the oldest guys on this board and I enjoy a good climax about five or six times a week. I get a testosterone injection every 14 days. If you get a PSA, make sure that there is no ejaculating for at least 48 hours before the blood-draw in order to get an accurate reading.
     
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    Now that you mention the stress thing, this started happening just a few weeks ago... Right after I met Smitty, and since then(including work) I've been under a lot of stress. Lol, I cant help but think I've fucked myself into an unfuck-out-able hole in the ground.

    I tend to fuck myself over a lot...

    Shit.

    Dammit, It sucks to be me.
     
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