deep throat

[jockmaestro]

Thanks for chiming in and putting some teeth in my deepest sensual desire. I am sure you have not only excited, but turned on many men reading your love of orally pleasing. Right on.

"Putting some TEETH" in your deepest desire?! You'd better check your figures of speech, dude! : )

I totally agree with you. It's hard to find women who exhibit the total lack of inhibition more, more importantly, the fucking DESIRE to deep throat. By contrast, guys like this are far more numerous.

 

[jockmaestro]

i think deepthroating is overrated. enthusiasm and a lot of attention to the head and ball play rule the day.

On the contrary, deep throating is the greatest pleasure there is in a blow job, altho, of course, attention and ball play are important components too.

 

[Belly_Dancer]

there is no such thing as a bad blowjob!!

I'm sorry, but I'm inclined to disagree with this, and I think that communicating things like this to some women makes them think they are good at oral sex when they are not.

I think a significant number of us would rather know the truth and have the opportunity to improve.

Too many women act like giving head at all is doing the guy a favour and he should be happy with whatever he gets. This situation isn't helped when guys reinforce this attitude by stating that there's no such thing as a bad blow job.

 

[tgirlsrgreat]

but it is so much fun learning to get better!!!!

 

[D_Reuben Stallpisser]

I'm sorry, but I'm inclined to disagree with this, and I think that communicating things like this to some women makes them think they are good at oral sex when they are not.

I think a significant number of us would rather know the truth and have the opportunity to improve.

Too many women act like giving head at all is doing the guy a favour and he should be happy with whatever he gets. This situation isn't helped when guys reinforce this attitude by stating that there's no such thing as a bad blow job.

Belly Dancer is right. There IS such a thing as a bad blow job. If you mislead a woman into thinking she's great when she's really sucking the rind off the sausage, you're only going to be miserable for as long as she's willing to keep giving you head. Enthusiasm is great, but it's no substitute for skill.

 

[HiddenLacey]

Belly Dancer is right. There IS such a thing as a bad blow job. If you mislead a woman into thinking she's great when she's really sucking the rind off the sausage, you're only going to be miserable for as long as she's willing to keep giving you head. Enthusiasm is great, but it's no substitute for skill.

I would rather know if I suck (no pun intended) so I can get better:biggrin1:

 

[tgirlsrgreat]

but i would never tell someone they were doing it badly. all i am saying is that with a little encouragement and coaching everyone can get better and everyone can enjoy themselves. and if there is some enthusiasm for it, its all good.

btw let go of my damn ears, i know what i am doing down here!!!!

 

[Lng_1]

My advice is to tell the woman giving you oral, what she does that you like-- instead of telling her what she is doing wrong that you do not like.... for instance, "Omg, I love it when you touch my balls with your tongue!".....

 

[LaFemme]

Belly Dancer is right. There IS such a thing as a bad blow job. If you mislead a woman into thinking she's great when she's really sucking the rind off the sausage, you're only going to be miserable for as long as she's willing to keep giving you head. Enthusiasm is great, but it's no substitute for skill.

I totally agree. Enthusiasm and loving the cock are essential - but so is skill. Practice is so sexy - and learning what each different man likes. If I'm with someone new, I ask and listen and watch. I'll watch him masturbate to get an idea of where to start with my hands and mouth. Asking and giving permission to be told can be incredibly sexy. And learning to deep throat takes patience and time. All very worth it!

 

[B_subgirrl]

I'm sorry, but I'm inclined to disagree with this, and I think that communicating things like this to some women makes them think they are good at oral sex when they are not.

I think a significant number of us would rather know the truth and have the opportunity to improve.

Too many women act like giving head at all is doing the guy a favour and he should be happy with whatever he gets. This situation isn't helped when guys reinforce this attitude by stating that there's no such thing as a bad blow job.

I'd much rather be told what someone likes and be able to improve, than just be told 'it's great' when it isn't.

Over the years I think I've gotten pretty good at reading body language and adapting, but if I don't adapt, I want to be told how to do it better!

 

[hud01]

but i would never tell someone they were doing it badly. all i am saying is that with a little encouragement and coaching everyone can get better and everyone can enjoy themselves. and if there is some enthusiasm for it, its all good.

btw let go of my damn ears, i know what i am doing down here!!!!

Sometimes you have to. My ex used to do things that were actually painful. I first tried to ask her to do something else. When she didn't get it and kept doing it I finally had to say please stop that and I had to repeat that about 30 times before she stopped.

 

[B_subgirrl]

Sometimes you have to. My ex used to do things that were actually painful. I first tried to ask her to do something else. When she didn't get it and kept doing it I finally had to say please stop that and I had to repeat that about 30 times before she stopped.

Seriously . That is really, really bad!

 

[hud01]

Seriously . That is really, really bad!

part of the reason for ex .

Oh yeah, when I mean 30 times I am talking about 30 individual nights.

 

[BiGuy4HimOrHer]

I've many many bj's from women over the years, and only a handful from men. The best bj you'll ever get is from a man. I am much more drawn to women physically than I am men, in fact haven't even been with a man in nearly 26 years, but just telling it like I've experienced it.

Men who suck cock do so because they are ravenously hungry for it and they suck like you describe. I've known a few women who sucked like that, one especially comes to mind, but every guy I've ever been with - which is a total of 5 - they all sucked like that. I suck like that too, but have a small mouth. I love to deep throat and am quite talented but like I say, the diameter can't be more than 1 7/8" or I rake his cock with my teeth. Length is not problem though. One of my lover's was long (8.5") and skinny like 1.5" and I could bury my face against him no problem, especially when we'd 69.