Deep yet appropriate affection

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aspiedeeptouch01

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Adult autistic here. Grew up fatherless and some abuse was involved sooooo, I internalized both a sadness and an intense longing for sensory-based affection. Preferably from someone bigger. You can imagine how awkward it can be to express this without dudes getting the wrong idea. I'm in therapy but wanted to more feedback. Example: being wrestled, are around my should with giant hand rustling my hair...I had none of that so it's hard to express. ANY feedback is appreciated. Be blessed!
 
And your question is?
Depending on the culture hugging is more acceptable or less, is that the kind of physical contact you are looking.
You are asexual so you are the emperor of the friend zone, men and women could hugs you without the fear of being misunderstood.
 
If its a sensorial thing an OT could help, talk it in therapy. Your need to be outsized is to feel yourself?
The rejection it's ok you and anyone can reject an interaction if you learn to give the proper context and ask nicely you might get a hug.
 
aspiedeeptouch01 said:
Outsized meaning someone bigger. I am disgusting it in therapy as well. We are looking for a trauma therapist who understands autism. Maybe some roleplay would help. I'm also gonna invest in a weighted blanket. I appreciate your time and advice very much!
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*Discussing lol
 
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