Deepthroat & Anal, the Holy Grail?

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  1. neil1972

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    In life, in porn there is this assumption that deepthroat and anal are unbelievable acts that take your pleasure to new heights. Is this true? Ive never experienced deepthroat and have tried anal only once and even then only for a few seconds before being told to stop. Im sure there are women out there who have deepthroated/done anal with bigger guys than me so whats the big deal????:biggrin1:
    Also, when your with someone for the first time does anyone else get the 'staring at your cock' moment? When your new partner first see's your cock, holds it and just stares at it for what seems like ages? :wink:



    Would like to hear from other Scots, male or female, straight or gay.
     
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    My great-grandmother was half-Scottish, I'm told. I'm not sure if that includes or excludes me, but I'll give it a whack anyway.

    Although it's not my preference to deep-throat a cock as big as yours, I have done it before and enjoyed it; more than once I've brought tears to the eye of a guy who'd never been deep-throated before and didn't think it was possible until he'd met me. It's a question of volition and endurance rather than anatomy: I'm short (5'6, 172 cm) and there's nothing extraordinary about my throat at all. The only thing that can cause me insurmountable difficulty is an abnormally girthy cock, say about as wide as three fingers.

    As for anal: I'm a strict anal top, but I understand that larger cocks are more comfortable than smaller ones once an ass is properly opened and set to go. I haven't heard any complaining about my dick being too big since my early 20s, before I understood what's required to cause pleasure instead of pain: lots of patience and lots of foreplay and lots and lots of lube.

    The only guys I've met who can fuck like a pornstar right from the beginning are either on drugs or have had a very slutty evening preceding my arrival, not that there's a priori anything wrong with either of those things :rolleyes:
     
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    I have done both and I think the allure is that its taboo. I have to agree with Bbucko though it takes patience and lots of lube to get a large one in your ass, but once its in it can feel so good. As far as deepthroating, guys with big dicks are normally so amazed you can get the whole thing in your mouth that it makes it that much better.
     
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    I've only had one girlfriend who liked anal. To me it is an entirely different sensation from a pussy. When fucking a pussy you have the initial ring, then it sort of opens up a little. With anal the grip is much more consistent. I know you have to get past the sphincter, but I still felt like my cock was in a tighter space.

    Deep throat is again a different feeling. I am very sensitive towards the base, so to have a tongue licking the lower shaft while the rest of my cock is nice and warm inside her mouth is awesome.
     
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    Listen to the responses of the guys I deepthroat in my videos and you can tell it's definitely a special treat :cool:

    Particularly rewarding for me: Guys with big dicks who tell me afterwards they didn't really like getting sucked before because they always got shredded by the guys/gals that tried to take them... I turned on quite a few guys to the pleasures of true deepthroat cocksucking and they are now devoted fans :smile:
     
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    I've done anal with a couple of past girlfriends, and while it was pleasurable and fun, it doesn't rank as a holy grail for me in terms of sensation alone.

    Both of those girlfriends were very much into the "being stuffed" feeling, and anal with them was exciting mainly because of their enthusiasm and the psychological side of it.

    To me, deepthroat is a whole other thing altogether. I think it feels fantastic - a holy grail if there ever was one.
     
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    Deep throat and anal are just part of daily play for my wife and I.What is realy special to me is that after 18 years she will without shame play with my balls and ass!That's the holy grail in our bedroom,free play with no guilt or shame.
     
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    I imagine its the taboo, or the feeling of getting all of your cock in to someone's mouth, or the feeling of your cocks head running down someones throat, who knows.

    Its also neat in arguements, I can do it my friends can't.
     
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    I'm curious, Polesmoker, did you have to really study and practice in order to deepthroat? Or is it just a matter of will power?
     
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    I am a big dick magnet and I was cautious at first, then my gay bf taught me how to really do it. I have not had any complaints so I guess I learned well.
     
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    I've had a few woman who could deep throat my 7" x 6", and my wife can now take about 80% of me. I've had anal sex a couple of times as well. Deepthroat is good as a variation, and it looks awesome. Anal sex is also good as a variation, and feels naughty no matter how many times you do it. I wouldn't regard either as being any better than vaginal sex though, just different for different reasons.

    I've had the first time holding my penis and staring at it many times. After a while I began to think that size matters in the mind well before any penetration. That is, women really get aroused and excited by looking at a large penis and holding it, and no doubt fantasizing what's to come.
     
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    Well I love to deepthroat a hung guy, and love the look in his eyes when he see's me take the shaft down to the balls- he usually shakes like a good un when unloading down my throat too, and after asking many a guy why they shake, i'm often told that the feeling of being engorged in my throat and their helmet swelling in my throat as they unload is the best feeling ever.
    With regard to anal, I am a total top ( i have sat on cock in the past, and can confirm that larger cocks are less painful during anal sex as long as there is lots of lube.....i think this is to do with the fact that a larger cock will open the anus muscles alot easier than a smaller one.
    I am a total large cock admirer, so when i first see a sexual partners large cock, I will hold it and admire it, lick it etc.
    I would certainly admire yours fella- what a nice piece of meat you have!:biggrin1::cool:
     
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    I totally agree Bbucko...and I admire your large tool too fella...Amazing:wink:
     
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    For me it was a combination. Anything less than 6 inches I could do from day one. It was over 7 and 6 inches if girth took time and willpower. Now I can take anything with a girth of 7 or less, length is pretty endless.
     
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    Am I alone in thinking it's slightly ironic that these stereotypically gay practises are regarded by some straights as the "holy grail" of heterosexual sex?

    I'm not intending criticism, just making an observation. I can remember when oral was thought a bit yucky by women and not many men would "go down", and buggery with either sex was illegal.

    Has gay liberation enabled straight sexual liberation?
     
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    Nice try but a real big reach. When was oral thought to be yucky by women? Deep Throat came out in 72 when you were 17 or 18.
     
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    I love oral, I love deep throating and I love anal. You just need to find the right girl perhaps?
     
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    My girl has almost no gag reflex and so as a result she is an amazing deep throater, and she LOVES doing it. She also enjoys having a good stiff cock in her ass, and does both at the same time whenever possible. She's great.
     
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    Well, I say it's a stretch (pun), but there's plenty of evidence that we of the gay persuasion move into blighted urban neighborhoods, gentrify them, then sell them at high market to straight married couples starting their families. You can never be 100% certain what influences we might have on "them." LOL!
     
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    Well yes, I remember the sensation when Deep Throat came out. It wasn't the first porn flick to get a mainstream release, but it was the first to focus on cocksucking. Who remembers Sex In The Grass, or I Am Curious Blue? Deep Throat broke a taboo, at the time.
     
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