belcurv: Doesn't the term "straight, open-minded", used in a lot of personal ads, mean basically that the person is open to some same-sex contact? I'm seeing it more and more in the context of "gay, lesbian, bi, transgender and straight openminded". I think a lot of people who consider themselves strictly "heterosexual" confuse the term with "gay friendly" or have some other completely diffferent read of it. Occasionally you see someone saying "strictly straight but openminded..." which sounds like a completely different interpretation of it. But I always thought it was normally used as a code word for, "well, I'm a straight dude, but since it feels really good and guys have bigger mouths and throats and know how to fellate better, I'll let the other male blow me as long as I don't have to reciprocate, kiss or show affection like I would to a woman." What do you think?