Defining Our 'Percentage' of Gayness

Discussion in 'Et Cetera, Et Cetera' started by B_curiousme01, Dec 12, 2009.

  1. B_curiousme01

    B_curiousme01 New Member

    Joined:
    Oct 31, 2009
    Messages:
    1,079
    Likes Received:
    5
    Gender:
    Female
    Location:
    Dreamplane
    When I first joined, I was working on my Profile and came to the question about percentage of gayness. I skipped this part and thought about it for a while. I came up with mine as follows:

    5% for girl one when I was 15. Not much happened, but she was a great kisser.

    5% for girl two when 26. Very brief so-so experience.

    5% because I have thought about other woman, but rarely.

    5% for my hubby as I would do anything he asked

    So 80/20 is where I came out, but I have not looked at the woman here (okay, except for one and twice only :). I so much prefer men in everyway.

    I am very curious as to how other people determined theirs? Like, what exactly does 1% mean? You just like to look, or sometimes see someone who, for whatever reason, makes your heart pound?

    Thanks for reading! I think I'm going to take a trip to the Gallery and click on the "Woman" icon to see what happens
     
  2. Countryguy63

    Verified Gold Member

    Joined:
    Jun 29, 2006
    Messages:
    14,488
    Albums:
    1
    Likes Received:
    1,447
    Gender:
    Male
    Location:
    near Monterey, Calif.
    Verified:
    Photo
    Good Morning,

    Ok, for your 1% question, look here..http://www.lpsg.org/159902-please-help-define-1-gay.html

    As far as how I came up with my percentages? I have always been equally physically attracted to males and females. However, up until recently, I had never had any emotional connections with the males. Females on the other hand, could easily get into my heart, including a 12 yr marriage.

    So, I figured on a percentage scale, I was just a bit more straight than I was gay. I am seriously rethinking that lately and it may change in the future
     
  3. nick1014

    nick1014 New Member

    Joined:
    Nov 30, 2009
    Messages:
    250
    Albums:
    2
    Likes Received:
    33
    Gender:
    Male
    Location:
    Evanston, IL
    I guess I'd put it this way: I'm attracted to men and women, but I'm attracted to a lot of men and only to the most beautiful/sexy women. I've had sex with men and women, but the sex has always been better and more fulfilling with men. I've been in relationships with men and women, but the emotional connection has always been deeper and more meaningful for me with men than with women. I consider myself gay and definitely prefer men, but I'm still open to playing with women and have not totally closed myself to the possibility of a relationship with a woman, even though that's probably a very unlikely outcome. It's kind of a balance between present desire and track record. I used to be a lot more hetero in practice. Thus, I'm 70% gay 30% straight. Not all that scientific. A guestimate at best. LOL
     
Draft saved Draft deleted