Defining sexual preferences help.

[WilliamG]

As a bi curious guy who reads the many profiles of others on the interweb, I'm a bit confused.

I think of myself as a "versatile bottom" if it goes there. I assume that to mean I would more likely be a bottom but may top if the situation was right. I would enjoy reciprocated oral as well. Is that a fair assumption?

But some sites (Sniffies for example) list: "bottom, versatile bottom". Or even "top, versatile top". Multiple pure bottoms have hit me up though I list "versatile bottom". They don't want me to be sucked. I'm thinking this is all a gray area? Is it more based on whether I show my ass first in my profile pics? What say you?

 

[WilliamG]

They don't want me to be sucked.

Typo: They don't want to be sucked

 

[theplayerking]

I think your assumed definition of “versatile bottom” is pretty standard.

 

[Brodie888]

Your definition is correct. But in a world where tops are drastically outnumbered by bottoms, bottoms in desperation will seek refuge in the arms of a versatile bottom because any cock in the ass is better than no cock in the ass

 

[LPSG Simon]

Your definition is correct. But in a world where tops are drastically outnumbered by bottoms, bottoms in desperation will seek refuge in the arms of a versatile bottom because any cock in the ass is better than no cock in the ass

I love this. Prison-love this. I have heard it also referred to as "top / bottom by circumstance".

But yeah @WilliamG - The spectrum can be drilled into endlessly, I guess they're just attracted to you and they are counting on the pecking order of the "vers" part to try their luck.

 

[WilliamG]

I love this. Prison-love this. I have heard it also referred to as "top / bottom by circumstance".

But yeah @WilliamG - The spectrum can be drilled into endlessly, I guess they're just attracted to you and they are counting on the pecking order of the "vers" part to try their luck.

I've been told here in Los Angeles bottoms are vastly more predominate. And based on my perusing of postings... I have to agree! Maybe it's a big city thing? Or perhaps bottoms tend to place the most posts and tops then respond?

 

[Brodie888]

I've been told here in Los Angeles bottoms are vastly more predominate. And based on my perusing of postings... I have to agree! Maybe it's a big city thing? Or perhaps bottoms tend to place the most posts and tops then respond?

It's not an LA thing. Everywhere in the world is the same.

 

[15337]

When I was in college, I was seeing my tutor and overtime, I developed a crush on my tutor. Very nice guy, sexy, handsome, etc. I admit that I kept seeing him as my tutor because I only pick him to hang out during our tutoring sessions because he was very attractive, I wanted to check him out such as staring at his eyes, then looking at his very attractive face, checking out his butt, check out what clothes he was wearing then analyzing in my head how sexy he was looking on what he was wearing (god he is so sexy in white t-shirt and pants), hopefully getting a glimpse of what boxers he was wearing (he would often wear Star Wars boxers) and hug him whenever I get the chance. Sometimes when I would get home from sessions, I then would fantasize about him by jerking off to him or having wet dreams about him. During covid, I remember after our zoom session, I would some times look at the recordings of our session and would jerk off to it for a good hour. I would also go through some photos of him on his Facebook/Instagram accounts and jerk off to those as well. I also go through his girlfriend’s profile to find other pictures of him and jerk off to those as well. I have save those pictures on my photos so anytime I want to jerk off again, they will be right their. I still occasionally jerk off to him to this day.