H8Monga: [quote author=trilingual link=board=relationships;num=1056919922;start=0#14 date=06/30/03 at 23:17:59]Gosh, too many WAY to uptight/self-conscious respondents. A size queen is someone who's turned on by size and chooses his/her partners because they're well-endowed. There's nothing wrong or shameful about that, nor is it any different than someone who chooses their partners because their brunette, or blue-eyed, or muscular, or big-breasted. Physical attributes (of one sort or another) turn people on. That doesn't mean that someone who's a size queen wants to go with EVERYONE who has a big dick. Someone's big dick may be what grabs a size queen's initial attention, but after that other factors come into play, especially personality and attitude. If they're uptight, or have a bad attitude, or display any of a number of other unappealing personality traits, it doesn't matter how big their dick is, because the attraction will, um, wilt as soon as it becomes evident. So, big dudes, don't worry about being liked ONLY because of your dick, because nobody will want a relationship with you only because of that. Of course, you'll undoubtedly be able to get one-night-stands because of your size, but you're not likely to find your partner(s) interested in repeating the experience unless you have something to offer besides being big. Stop worrying about people knowing how big you are. In fact, let people know! That way you're likely to meet people who find you physically attractive. But work on being the kind of guy a partner will want to spend time with once your initial roll in the hay is over. Then you'll have the best of all possible worlds: a partner who is physically attracted to you AND likes you because you're a great human being!
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Prefering someone because of his size is different from choosing someone because they have blue eyes, muscles, even skin tone or whatever because all of that is usually apparent right away. The number of superhung are few and there are a lot of hung growers out there. It's not always going to be obvious and easy to pick out a hung guy. When a woman sees blue eyes and muscles, she knows what she's getting because everyone can see it right away. Most times a penis will be consealed and a lot of size queens learn about a guy by word of mouth than sight. In college the crazy guys on my floor thought I was hung because I was black and even alluded to that one time when one of them was hooking up with a girl. If she was a size queen and they gave her to me, imagine her disappointment. Remember, women love great personalities, fun, love and such, but larger is a bonus from what I have learned (NOT MY PERSONAL OPINION INITIALLY).
