NJ said that she's had sex with 12 guys in 22 years. Some people may see that as a low number if they've been with more, but someone else, who's only been with a few people in their life may see 12 as a high number. Exactly, I actually wish my number were lower. :redface: Like many college students I went through a binge drinking phase and didn't always make the best decisions when under the influence.
I was talking with a woman a few years back who was in her mid 20's, and she told me she had sex with about 50 guys. She was very open about it. I was quite shocked, but she thought nothing of it as she knew women her age who had sex with 75 or 100 guys.
It's who you associate with that can often dictate how you feel about something. If you make $20,000 a year and all your friends make the same amount of money, you may think someone who makes $50,000 a year is loaded. But $50,000 to that person may just be enough to get by.
We all have a different perspective.