Hi everyone, I have a question. It usually takes me a long time to cum and usually I can't have an orgasm from sex. This was never really a problem in the past because 1. my girlfriends didn't want me to cum inside them for fear of getting pregnant, 2. I could last for hours if they were up for it, and 3. we didn't really need to worry much about birth control. Things have changed since getting married, however. My wife is upset that I rarely have an orgasm from sex. We are trying to conceive so we've started having sex (she'll cum one or two times) and then give me a handjob for a couple minutes and hop back on right before I start to cum. I really don't mind this arrangement and I don't see any practical problems with it. We both always have orgasms, I'm cumming inside her, we have sex almost every day, she initiates about 1/3 of the time, and I initiate about 2/3 of the time. The issue, however, is that she feels like she's somehow not good enough and has begun to lose interest in sex. I attribute some of this to the fact that our efforts to conceive have turned sex into something of a chore but she's still somewhat bothered. My feeling is that we have a good sex life but I'm worried that this issue could start interfering with it. Does anyone have any advice or input? Thanks!