hey guys. I really could use some advice.
So I just came out not too long ago, and now that I’m starting to get sexual with other guys. I realized that I can’t ejaculate unless it’s by my own hand. Not from oral, anal, or the other persons touch. Looked into it, and it seems like it’s delayed ejaculation. Probably from all the years growing up, only fantasizing about going through with the act, watching porn etc.
I’m not sure what to do. I was wondering if anyone had any advice or tips on maybe how to combat this issue. It’s really killing my self esteem, and I’m already noticing that I’m shying away from physical acts, or just even meeting people in general in fear that things may turn sexual and I won’t be able to perform, or satisfy my partner.
Any tips would be greatly appreciated. Thanks
So I just came out not too long ago, and now that I’m starting to get sexual with other guys. I realized that I can’t ejaculate unless it’s by my own hand. Not from oral, anal, or the other persons touch. Looked into it, and it seems like it’s delayed ejaculation. Probably from all the years growing up, only fantasizing about going through with the act, watching porn etc.
I’m not sure what to do. I was wondering if anyone had any advice or tips on maybe how to combat this issue. It’s really killing my self esteem, and I’m already noticing that I’m shying away from physical acts, or just even meeting people in general in fear that things may turn sexual and I won’t be able to perform, or satisfy my partner.
Any tips would be greatly appreciated. Thanks