Delaying ejaculation

Discussion in 'The Healthy Penis' started by oriental-lad, Jan 7, 2012.

  1. oriental-lad

    oriental-lad New Member

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    The head of my penis is super sensitive (uncut) and even though I love being sucked, usually cum too far quickly because of this. Instead I have to get the guy to lick my shaft or balls to last longer, rather than a proper blow job.

    Also, with new guys, sometimes I can cum (if they're wanking me) in seconds even though my cock is still soft.

    I've tried wanking first and can last a lot longer (1 hour +) but that often means I can't get properly hard for a while. Also, I've tried more foreplay, but then still have the same problem when the guy actually works on my cock.

    Any alternative tips to last longer?
     
  2. D_JacqueMiHoff

    D_JacqueMiHoff New Member

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    Whenever I feel like I'm gonna ejaculate I'll tighten my lower ab muscles. Almost like trying to pass gas. It might take a while to get the hang of it. I like to practice when I beat my dick.
     
  3. kaientai

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    Edging helped me .. The stuff you described I was exactly the same (although I have relatively no recovery time , but I still came quickly again) After a few months of edging I am gaining in durability for me it is a slow proces but I am getting there also altered my eating and lessened my smoking and drinking .. Thinking about getting a fleshlight and edging with that. Ow and I do kegel/towel raises but a bit iregular with that
     
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    Sounds like a proper blow job to me ;)

    One of the best tips I can think of for how to make sex longer and more enjoyable is to do exactly that - keep switching things up. Change positions. Change locations. Go back to foreplay - again and again. If you ask me, good sex is about a lot more than non-stop penile stimulation.
     
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    Think about baseball or golf. Works every time.
     
  6. oriental-lad

    oriental-lad New Member

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    Guys thanks for the replies. I guess I am not disciplined enough to edge (always end up cumming.), but will try. Anyhow, I had a strategic wank and managed to last 1.5 hours with my partner sucking me off fully, rimming, loads of foreplay and kissing. When I came, surprised us both with the strength of the ejaculation. It looked good on his chest!
     
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