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whatireallywant - I hate it when they fish for information regarding how big on our scale of guys we've had they fit, or if they're the best we ever had. It shouldn't matter what we did in the past, I've never asked a man if I was better than his previous partners, or any related question.

FWIW Princess, I am finding your posting recently of the very highest order :redface: Thanks.

Guys who are like this, and I was when I was younger, are simply not sexually liberated. I am sure that the women here will immediately understand how self image and body image detract from free sexual expression and exploration.

Obsession with your cock and insecurity about it are the male equivalent. I can remember the exact moment of my own liberation. We were lying panting and giggling after fantastic sex and I suddenly thought why the fuck did I have angst about this woman's previous history. We have just had the best time together how could anything else matter.

The next step was to think shit, I hope she's had great sex all her life, I realise that most experienced women haven't had great sex all the time, because so many men are sexually retarded, but why would you ever want someone you cared about to have had bad experiences.

And even if you are having casual sex, my attitude is that you are both there of your own free will, hopefully, you are in a moment of spacetime, give it what you've got. Anyone who doesn't appreciate that isn't worth shit in my book.
 

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I haven't PMed anyone, and I haven't chatted with anyone. All my posts have been straight forward with no bs. Granted, I'm not big. Wish I was though. Want me to leave? I won't stay where I'm not wanted.


I think you are one of the people i had in mind wheen i started this thread.. BUT.. i also think you may have interpreted me wrong. I was acutally trying to support the new guys like you who may/ may not be the biggest but think us women expect all guys to be huge because of the conversation that goes on here.

And yes, i have noticed your post, polite, direct, considerate and honest.. PLEASE dont leave, it is a pleasure having guys like you around





As for the few that picked up on my signature. Its irony :wink:as ive always stated since my first day here that im NOT a size queen, and am more than happy with 'average'
 

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I think you are one of the people i had in mind wheen i started this thread.. BUT.. i also think you may have interpreted me wrong. I was acutally trying to support the new guys like you who may/ may not be the biggest but think us women expect all guys to be huge because of the conversation that goes on here.

And yes, i have noticed your post, polite, direct, considerate and honest.. PLEASE dont leave, it is a pleasure having guys like you around





As for the few that picked up on my signature. Its irony :wink:as ive always stated since my first day here that im NOT a size queen, and am more than happy with 'average'

Thanks. I don't think njqt466 agrees with you about me from some posts I've made. She has me pegged all wrong. It was fun while it lasted, but I've got other areas in my life I want to move onto that I could spend this time on. Good luck everyone.
 

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Even if I do like them big, the important thing to remember is that I'M the freak, not the guy offering me the average penis.

Besides, I suffer from delusions of competance as it is...
 

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As for the few that picked up on my signature. Its irony as ive always stated since my first day here that im NOT a size queen, and am more than happy with 'average'

LOL -- luv your new signature!! :biggrin1:

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That's comforting! I take it that you aren't a "size queen"?

Nope! Not a size queen! I just want to be made to feel as special as a queen. :wink:

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Obsession with your cock and insecurity about it are the male equivalent. I can remember the exact moment of my own liberation. We were lying panting and giggling after fantastic sex and I suddenly thought why the fuck did I have angst about this woman's previous history. We have just had the best time together how could anything else matter.

The next step was to think shit, I hope she's had great sex all her life, I realise that most experienced women haven't had great sex all the time, because so many men are sexually retarded, but why would you ever want someone you cared about to have had bad experiences.

Awww shucks, Drifterwood, * sniff * that’s so beautiful. :wink:
 

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And again I say you are beautiful. The one thing about this site is that the majority of members that are active regularly possess the greatest sex organ of all...

A brain and the ability to use it.

The fact that you all look fabulous is just a huge bonus.

Stop putting yourself down. You are a sexy woman and it's the guys who don't see it that are losing out.

Thanks! :smile:

I have a really, really big...brain! :wink: :biggrin1:
 

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Even if I do like them big, the important thing to remember is that I'M the freak, not the guy offering me the average penis.

Besides, I suffer from delusions of competance as it is...

I'm thinking I'm the same way... like I'm the freak... I feel bad that I can't even feel an average guy inside me. :mad: Makes me wonder what's wrong with me!

Delusions of competence!? :biggrin1: I love that... I may have to start using that phrase!
 

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That's the point hon...we are the freaks.

If you met a guy who only got off on girls who wore glasses, you'd know that he was kind of strange.

I have no problems with guys and gals feeling that way about me. They shouldn't base their self-esteem on my absurd fetish.
 

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That's the point hon...we are the freaks.

If you met a guy who only got off on girls who wore glasses, you'd know that he was kind of strange.

I have no problems with guys and gals feeling that way about me. They shouldn't base their self-esteem on my absurd fetish.

Hey, if he gets off on girls who wear glasses... send him my way! I've worn them since the age of 4. :biggrin1:

(providing he fits my size preferences of course...)
 

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That's the point hon...we are the freaks.

If you met a guy who only got off on girls who wore glasses, you'd know that he was kind of strange.

I have no problems with guys and gals feeling that way about me. They shouldn't base their self-esteem on my absurd fetish.

I admire your honesty. Not many people would come out and say that.
 

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whatireallywant - I hate it when they fish for information regarding how big on our scale of guys we've had they fit, or if they're the best we ever had. It shouldn't matter what we did in the past, I've never asked a man if I was better than his previous partners, or any related question.
Heh.
This something I'd NEVER, EVER want to ask a girl I had sex with because unless she has very limited experience, I'm sure there's been bigger. Having to ask and then getting an answer--whether it was sugar-coated bullshit or a blunt, real answer--would make me feel really uncomfortable with that girl. I admit that I am curious on where my penis size stands to the collective female population and how I might be to that specific girl I'm getting with(I'm between 6 and 6 1/2, so average really), it would not be worth it to ask. I feel I'd just be exposing my insecurity by bringing attention to my otherwise "neutral hung" penis.
Continuing on size though, I honestly think that I wouldn't want to be VERY hung because it'd overshadow my other very good sexual tools (huge tongue, amazing finger agility). I wouldn't want my penis size to absorb all the attention of what else I have to give. I really just wish my penis grew another inch (literally, with proportionate increase in girth) so that at like 7-7.5", I could be considered a "pretty good size" yet not take away the attention on other things. Basically just adequacy by any girls' standards...a B grade because I have something that's more like a C.
 

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That's the point hon...we are the freaks.

If you met a guy who only got off on girls who wore glasses, you'd know that he was kind of strange.

I have no problems with guys and gals feeling that way about me. They shouldn't base their self-esteem on my absurd fetish.

Haha, that's great! Really refreshing perspective Miss Divine, I appreciate that.