Describe, in detail, your idea of a PERFECT date with someone

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Who would you go out with, why them, what do they look like, what is their personality like, where do you go?…etc. I think if a whole bunch of gay guys discussed, truthfully, who they would consider ”The Perfect Date”, a lot of positivity would come of the discussion for others to read. From reading and answering so many men on here with big hopes and negative attitudes towards themselves, I would like to begin a discussion of what TRULY matters to YOU most. This could help a lot of people understand that not every gay guy is in the scene looks like Chris Hemsworth, is 6’ 4”, modeled for Calvin Klein, has Musk money, and has a cock so big he has to tie it around his leg twice to put his pants on. I am interested, and I believe others as well, in the REAL stuff that matters to YOU and the REAL things you may be able to provide in life to someone you love, and the real things you may need to work on yourself before dating the man of your dreams. What do you think?
 
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I wouldn't want to describe my perfect date physically because that depends on the person. A perfect date would be doing something physical like going on a hike or doing something that I have not done before. Something that requires us to work together and laugh and have fun. It would end with something romantic like a kiss or something light. Something to build anticipation for what is to come.
 

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I wouldn't want to describe my perfect date physically because that depends on the person. A perfect date would be doing something physical like going on a hike or doing something that I have not done before. Something that requires us to work together and laugh and have fun. It would end with something romantic like a kiss or something light. Something to build anticipation for what is to come.
I LOVE what you said about physicality as it pertains to how the person IS in general, not what they look like. Glad the first poster saw what I was up to!

big kisses on your pink parts! ❤️
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Doing something I’d do with my friends. I don’t really care about doing expensive things. If anything that would make me uncomfortable. I want to get to know them not empty their or my wallet. Lol. Camping, sporting events, dinner, outdoors stuff, watching movies, even playing a game. When are guards are done we show who we are. And if I’m attracted to them on multiple facets, I might push for physical stuff. But maybe we wait until we’re both comfortable, and are sure it could be a longer term thing.
 
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Who would you go out with, why them, what do they look like, what is their personality like, where do you go?…etc. I think if a whole bunch of gay guys discussed, truthfully, who they would consider ”The Perfect Date”, a lot of positivity would come of the discussion for others to read. From reading and answering so many men on here with big hopes and negative attitudes towards themselves, I would like to begin a discussion of what TRULY matters to YOU most. This could help a lot of people understand that not every gay guy is in the scene looks like Chris Hemsworth, is 6’ 4”, modeled for Calvin Klein, has Musk money, and has a cock so big he has to tie it around his leg twice to put his pants on. I am interested, and I believe others as well, in the REAL stuff that matters to YOU and the REAL things you may be able to provide in life to someone you love, and the real things you may need to work on yourself before dating the man of your dreams. What do you think?
Why so much information it's date not a life sentence guaranteed!♂️✈️
 

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We'd talk. Just talk. I'd want to know who he is. If he is decent and kind, loves to laugh, what type of humor does he like, and what type of humor does he have. What drives him crazy in both good and bad ways. Did he come from an insane family? Or a Stepford family? Or a genuine loving family? What difficulties has he risen above and what aspects or issues is he working on? Is he kind of dumb but sweet and kind? Is he super intelligent but doesnt brag? Does he want to know all the same about me? Will he think I am a freak because I love both Disney movies and horror movies? Can I tell him too much about myself, even though I want to know everything about him? Does he appreciate honesty as much as I do? We'd just talk and talk about anything and everything. If we meet at a restaurant, I would want to see he is decent to our waiter. He'd ask and talk as much as I do. What would he look like? He'd look kind with a big smile and an easy laugh. If he's muscular or a bodybuilder, definite icing on the cake but not required. There's a guy at my local pharmacy, always a big smile, super super nice, says hi even if I am just passing by his window. Cute, younger by probably many years, but man! He just screams kindness. I would LOVE to go on a date with someone like him. Someone who seems to have an inner light that flashes "you can truly trust me". Its that which drives me crazy for him. Not his looks. It's the way he saw me and gave a big smile one day. It's the way he was sipping an ice coffee, saw me, stopped sipping, smiled and said hi. It's the way he says "have a great night", smiles,as he gives me my order, and seems to really mean it, unlike the normal robot responses from other clerks. And it's not sexual, it's just a "wow! You're a real person! And you're NICE!" that attracts me. That's the kind of person I want to date.