Mine was at a house party of a guy that used to go to the same (str8) dance club that I hung out at. The DJ from the club was was downstairs in the basement spinning records. The bathtub was full of ice and beer. For a while we sat in the living room watching "the Cure in Orange" on video. The best gay party I went to was in a guys backyard at night. His parents were away. We also hung out in his large garage, (it has a nice setup). The tall blond guy that I was in love with was there and I was so nervous to be introduced to him and shake his hand. We stayed there till the sun came up.