Oh I'd love a rich, hung millionaire to come sweep me off my feet, but what really attracts me in a man? He is or has:
- Is trustworthy
- Has a ready warm smile that breaks into a self-effacing laugh.
- Confidence
- Introspection
- Broad intelligence with great curiosity
- Inspires me to be a better man than I usually am
- Loves dogs
- Can focus on his goals until he achieves them
- Loves himself as much as he loves others and keeps himself in reasonable shape
- Has more than the average modicum of wisdom
- Enjoys the city and the country equally
- I can imagine staying with until the end of our lives
- Is spiritually at peace with himself
- I have no qualms trusting him with my life
Physically? That's easy...
I have a particular attraction to blond otters and bears. Ever see the Lincoln Tech guy with the goatee on TV?
Something like this guy. I'm a sucker for blue eyes but brown eyes on a blond guy, RRRRRRRuuufffff!!! I don't care about how big his dick is or if he's intact or cut. Furry chest, nads, ass, and pits will have me drooling and I don't mean my mouth.
Sexually...
- Top or bottom doesn't matter to him. He's interested in great sex.
- Is willing to be monogamous for at least a little while so we can have unprotected sex.
- Is willing to explore or is already into BDSM.
- Can cum deep in me while our eyes are locked on each other (and vice versa).
- What's really paramount is that he understand that sex with him will be the complete physical expression of my love for him and that I feel the same from him.
I think Marilyn Monroe said it best:
The most unsatisfactory men are those who pride themselves on their virility and regard sex as if it were some form of athletics at which you can win cups. It is a woman's spirit and mood a man has to stimulate in order to make sex interesting. The real lover is the man who can thrill you just by touching your head or smiling into your eyes or by just staring into space.
If you happen to see this guy, would you please tell him I'm looking for him?:biggrin1: