describe your wank

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  1. dolfette

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    because, as we already know but a lot of boys do not, it ain't like in the pornos.

    i pretty much never bother with penetration. it makes it harder for me to O and it's kinda awkward to reach properly. i can O using my fingers, but have to rub so hard that it causes numbness if i enjoy a wank more than two or three days in a row. i much prefer a vibe. holding a vibe still on my clit, a bit of nipple pinching, i'll O in about five minutes.
    i'm pretty still & quiet throughout, aside from the occasional involuntary spasm. i may or may not moan or grunt as i O. i stop pretty much straight away as it ceases to feel good and i know from experience that i won't O again until i've had five minutes unstimulated recovery time.
    i find company super distracting and someone else touching me just ruins an O, so for me they're a private pleasure. i get irritated by any sort of distraction.

    so that's my wank!
    what about yours?
     

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    I readily confess my body/anatomy is a bit unorthodox. With actual intercourse I almost exclusively orgasm from penetration. For masturbation though, it's fairly exclusively clit stimulation. I've tried a variety of vibrators thanks to my quasi-hobby of reviewing adult products (https://twitter.com/#!/FaydrehKitty/status/110542971283308545/photo/1 my current vibrator of choice). I'll give lots of attention to my clit, helped along by the hood piercing I have. I may tweak my nipples, etc. I typically can cum fairly quickly, 5 minutes or less, with a vibrator. Being a multi-orgasmic person, but also a lady who can have an overly-stimulated clit, if I want to cum more I tend to alternate between penetrating myself with a toy and using a vibrator on my clit. I don't normally tend to be quiet either, but since I share a house currently, I have to bite my lip a lot so I'm not overheard.
     
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    It honestly depends on my mood.

    Sometimes I am all about my clit and just use my fingers to completely rub myself into an erotic frenzy until I am to the point where I orgasm and almost pass out.

    Sometimes I use my toys like my rabbit or if I'm really wanting penetration with no vibration I use my glass toys which I like very much. Usually though if I'm doing penetration, I can't orgasm on that alone I have to have clit stimulation to accompany it.

    Very rarely do I ever touch my breasts, though I don't mind if they are touched. It's just not something I find I'm very coordinated with. I'm either touching my nether regions or I'm touching my breasts and I can't get satisfaction from doing both to myself at the same time.

    I don't mind if my boyfriend watches me. If anyone else watched me, I may actually mind though.

    I'm sorry I do not have a picture to accompany my post but yours is beautiful Dolfette.
     
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    I'm more of a flavor of the week type diddler. Sometimes I am experimenting with the feel of fabric against my skin, hot and cold, menthol, and many other oddities. Other times, I seem to get into phases where I'll be more g-spot, clitoral, or vaginally focused.

    My honest-to-god staple method of wank isn't even really wanking. I'll normally have a hot bath and cap the day off by giving myself a sensual rub down with a massage oil or body butter. I can't say it always leads to an orgasm as I just let myself go wherever and however I want, but I prefer it this way since there is no focus on getting off... it's just being self-sensual, and I like that :smile:
     
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    Magic wand, turned all the way up, hard pressure, pull upwards on the hood with it. Wiggle, tighten up my entire body. Knees locked, left arm tightly wrapped around a pillow. Right arm working the wand. Toes pointed....when the O hits me I thrust my hips and moan. I may grunt a little, squeak a little, breathe hard and gasp for air.

    Wait 20 seconds or so....repeat until exhaustion.
     
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    OP, are you reaching out for a good "fap"?
     
  7. dolfette

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    a lot of variation. seems no two of us wank the same.
     
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    dolfette AWESOME pic and wank story, how BIG are those boobies?
     
  9. dolfette

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    and straight to ignore for being tedious and crass :rolleyes:
     
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    I rub my belly, inner thighs, along the pubic bone, and only occasionally throw in nipple play. My go to - before falling asleep or waking up - two fingers on clit in a circular motion with a little pulling of the labia and hood. If I have more time, I use my curved glass dildo with or without clit play - depends on how wet I am or other stimulation.

    All time fave - in the tub with really warm water tumbling from faucet massaging my clit. Or floating in hot tub with jets doing the same thing.

    I can also squeeze my thighs together and cum, but the orgasm isn't as satisfying. Only use a vibrator if I need stimulation/distraction when using a large dildo.
     
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    :tongue: Love your beautiful picture and would like to see more!
     
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    Beautiful!
     
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    dolf, I'm beginning to think this thread would have worked better in the RLG . . .

    My wank:

    I poke a vibe at my deep spot, then leave it there to do it's job. My current vibe (recently nicknamed the 'light sabre') is kind of pointy ended, which is better because it means the poking has a stronger effect.

    Once the vibe's in place, I attack my clit and surrounding areas with as many toys as I can juggle at once (usually three). As I've said before, I like to be over-stimulated.

    I will orgasm in under 5 minutes if I don't try to stretch out the pleasure for longer. I only get one orgasm with toys unless I have the patience to wait another hour, so I try to make sure it's a deep spot one.
     
  14. ManlyBanisters

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    I think dolf was right to post it here - it is one of the things the forum is meant to be for - we can't control what other members feel they need to contribute to the thread, it's an open forum. We can decide whether we react to it or not.

    Anyway - on topic:
    It totally depends whether it is a functional wank or a leisurely wank. For functional (I need an orgasm before I do other stuff type wank) I'm a 2 finger circular motion on clit. Sometimes a nipple pinch will sneak in but it isn't vital to the stimulation. What really gets me off for those wanks is what I'm thinking about. Concentrating on a specific scenario or remembering specific sensations from RL fucking with Hickboy. If I'm very horny when I start it can be a minute or 2 til orgasm. If I need a bit of build up then 5-15 minutes is required.

    For a leisurely wank there is far more variety - I might read some erotic literature while gently stimulating my clit until I'm too horny not to come at which point the stimulation becomes less gentle. I might get a vibe and just allow it to sit against my vulva for a while while I play with my nipples. I might get a dildo and keep a steady pressure on my cul-de-sac while rubbing my clit. Those are kind of house to myself, curtains drawn type wanks.

    I don't live with my man at the moment, unfortunately, so we tend to fuck a lot when we are together. Masturbation doesn't really come up. I'm pretty sure that him getting involved in any of those wanks will be a-ok with me.
     
  15. dolfette

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    there's nothing to stop you making a thread there. that way more ladies will feel able to contribute, without attracting male attention.

    i do think it's a pity to have to exclude the cool guys from reading & participating just because there are some crass, leg humping, brainless wankers here though.
     
  16. dolfette

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    seems i'm unusual in that some days the nip pinch is vital to hotting O. it certainly speeds the process.
     
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    I didn't mean that I don't think it's a WI or that it's out of place here. This is a perfect place for it. It's just a shame the manners of some members (or lack of them) may mean that some women may be reluctant to join in.


    I use nipple clamps very occasionally. Does that count? :tongue:

    Seriously, on a regular basis, I don't do nipple stimulation. Self nipple stimulation just doesn't seem to work for me (although I LOVE it when it's non-self).
     
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    This thread could possibly be one beautiful thread if the assholes would please stop posting stupid shit and shut the fuck up. You could learn something here.
     
  19. dolfette

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    hopefully it will do something to reeducated the guys who think their one technique will work on all. we're all different. buncha dirty, pervy snowflakes.
     
  20. B_Mademoiselle Rouge

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    Yeah, it's a good thing the steamy and hot stories that make me picture what these ladies are doing to get to their sweet spot and ride the waves into pure bliss is overriding my urge to say:

    Immature bastards who put their own desire to get their rocks off as a public message stuffed inbetween a candid, sensual and birds eye view into the private thoughts and physicality of how they reach orgasm.

    And then we wonder why so many hesitate to post. Had I been the one to create this and excitingly check for the latest response just to have it say "Lets see those titties" I would have sunk into my chair thinking "Here we go again another thread that the immature guys can't seem to get a grip on reality and know when and how to respond in a way that shows they are gentleman"

    If you want to wank to such intimate responses (as they are beautiful to read) by all means to do....just try your best not to chime in like a dork to say one liner compliments on the body part of the lady who shared something so personal about what she does in her bedroom with no one else around.

    Jack off if you must....but keep the leg humping to yourself. It just bogs down the open mic going on for the ladies to express themselves for the men to see and hear things they would likely never see or hear again in their life time.

    Appreciate it and treat it with respect. If you can't, go to Redtube or Xtube or any other Tube and get your rocks off to something else. Don't take what we are sharing and turn it into a publicly announced wank-fest for you all.

    You are reading the Red Shoe Diaries. Don't jizz all over the pages. Respond to it if you feel compelled, ask questions if you feel compelled. But don't isolate our body parts and talk about them here in the thread. That's not what this subject was intended for.

    :soapbox:
     
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