describe your wank

[ManlyBanisters]

In some ways I agree Red - I also think your post detracts somewhat from the on topic pots, albeit in a different way from the one liners from the pink writing bloke et al.

Like I said - it is an open forum. I was aware, when responding, that someone may get turned on by what I wrote. If that bothered me, I would not have written it and posted here. The one-liners will come, whether we blast them or not, let's just carry on and do with this thread what we want to do with it and not mind those responses.

I forgot to mention vocalisation, as many others have - I'm really not a very vocal wanker (except in the figurative sense :lmao - there might be the odd grunt and obviously my breathing varies and becomes more audible.

 

[Tattooed Goddess]

More than anything, I was actually *hoping* for male responses. Just not the ones like "Hey how about those big ol' boobies" and that's it.

It shuts down the flow of what is sensual and candid. Men can comment, I want them to comment. I just don't want teenage boy type comments. Show us your true emotion. Like "Wow, that really turns me on to think of you doing that, my ex masturbated similarly" not just some random comment about our titties and how they are doing today. That's just silly.

 

[dolfette]

don't let this derail yet another thread.

IMO you just slap an iggy on them, tell them why, and hope that eventually they twig that there is no reward in treating women this way.
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i used to be a lot more experimental in my wanking. i've tried all manner of different things from sharps to shocks. these days i've figured out what feels best and pretty much stay on script.
having an O with the prickly end ov a round hairbrush up there is an interesting mix of feelings.

 

[Tattooed Goddess]

Iggy Pop has arrived. It's going to be quite boring with so many on the Igg.....but it will be a welcome change.

Sometimes I use lube.

 

[dolfette]

i have always been supremely wet.
the only times i have used lube were when it had a tingle to it or when i experimented with my arse to see it it could bring pleasure (it doesn't, in case you're wondering).

 

[Tattooed Goddess]

My ass is super sensitive in a good way....but only around the anal opening. It has a lot of nerves, but once I put something inside there, all the fun dissipates. Back to the vag and the clit and the nipples.

 

[dolfette]

My ass is super sensitive in a good way....but only around the anal opening. It has a lot of nerves, but once I put something inside there, all the fun dissipates. Back to the vag and the clit and the nipples.

tongue feels nice.
nothing else does.

 

[Tattooed Goddess]

I totally agree. I could settle for an ass-licking hands down over a pussy licking. I just can't feel much of that. Ass licking all the way (not necessarily rimming) just a little flicking of the tongue to tickle. Holding my legs up in the air with my feet together and making me take the licks.

He has a new little trick of blowing on my ass and it's cold air and I giggle like a school girl. Now he has ideas to restrain me and take all sorts of tickling acts....

Sorry I've turned your masturbation thread into a "This is another thing I love too!" thread....hope that ok.

 

[B_Hickboy]

there's nothing to stop you making a thread there. that way more ladies will feel able to contribute, without attracting male attention.

i do think it's a pity to have to exclude the cool guys from reading & participating just because there are some crass, leg humping, brainless wankers here though.

HEY! What's wrong with humping a leg?

 

[B_Craiggers]

More than anything, I was actually *hoping* for male responses. Just not the ones like "Hey how about those big ol' boobies" and that's it.

It shuts down the flow of what is sensual and candid. Men can comment, I want them to comment. I just don't want teenage boy type comments. Show us your true emotion. Like "Wow, that really turns me on to think of you doing that, my ex masturbated similarly" not just some random comment about our titties and how they are doing today. That's just silly.

TBH, I don't really know what techniques she uses. What her hands are doing when she's playing with herself is far less interesting to me than what her face or body are doing.

Depending on how we're positioned in bed, I'm usually either watching her face and enjoying how she bites her lip and all the blissfully pained expressions she makes. If she's resting her head on my shoulder, I just enjoy feeling her tense up and nestle into me as she goes.

Technique-wise, she could be playing tic-tac-toe down there for all I know This thread's still an enjoyable read though.

 

[Tattooed Goddess]

TBH, I don't really know what techniques she uses. What her hands are doing when she's playing with herself is far less interesting to me than what her face or body are doing.

Depending on how we're positioned in bed, I'm usually either watching her face and enjoying how she bites her lip and all the blissfully pained expressions she makes. If she's resting her head on my shoulder, I just enjoy feeling her tense up and nestle into me as she goes.

Technique-wise, she could be playing tic-tac-toe down there for all I know This thread's still an enjoyable read though.

I do that with my husband also, lay next to him while I'm tensing up and sweating and grabbing his biceps with one arm to build up muscle tension. It's so sensual to have him share the experience with me but allow me to have complete control.

Have you been to the site Beautiful Agony.com , if not, it's right up your alley of what you'd love to see. It's my kind of porn.

 

[MisterSix]

I was licking my girlfriend's pussy from behind while she was propped up on her hands and knees. I sloy tongued around her ass, and she let out a big moan. Later, I tried to slide a fingertip in, but she sort of laughed and then jumped away from me.

We later talked about it, and while she liked the tongue, actual penetration freaked her out. Given time, we might have explored it, but we didn't last long enough. She was very sexual and open to experimenting, but she was a bit of a hygiene fanatic, and I think this put her off.

I do agree and have come to learn that all women are different, and respond differently to oral sex. I think we guys sometimes (or often) come in with the "one size fits all" approach.

I've found this thread interesting.

 

[B_Craiggers]

Have you been to the site Beautiful Agony.com , if not, it's right up your alley of what you'd love to see. It's my kind of porn.

Yup, I had an account there for a while!

 

[Tattooed Goddess]

Yup, I had an account there for a while!

I've thought of submitting some videos to that site. I'd rather watch faces over traditional porn anyday.

I have videos of me masturbating in the Contact info of my profile to an Xtube link. I added one a few weeks ago. It's not EXACTLY what I'd do if I didn't have the camera on, but I was able to crank them out none the less. So the tricks were working.

It was odd to watch and especially listen to myself because it felt like I was spying on someone close to me. It just felt weird and still does. My husabnd likes to watch it but I have a harder time with it. It feels like I'm invading my own sessions of masturbation by being the exhibitionist by recording it and the voyeur by watching it. A weird position to be in indeed!

 

[Ed69]

I'd be interested to know ladys,do you make time for a wank?Or is it just next in line after brushing your teeth?For me it's most times just getting rid of tension in the shower or after a good piss with morning wood.Other times yes I take time out for it cause it's me time and it feels damn good.I also have to agree with dolfette,I don't like company when I do my thing!

 

[xX_Sarah_Xx]

Oh... wanks.. they vary a lot! Often depends on my cycle. And the amount of free time/stress I have. And the mood I'm in.

During exams, I'm constantly horny, kind of a way to deal with the stress I think. Some kind of auto-relaxation mechanism mebbeh? So I do lots of quickies. 4-5 orgasms a day or so. Those usually take less than 5 minutes, I just rub my clit in a way it feels good and hump my hand a little. They're not big O's, just get my mind back at what I need to be doing (studying!).

During my period I'm often horny but usually only masturbate in the shower. Just less of a mess and I shower a lot at that time. The blood makes for easy lubrification too (when not on my period, I will rarely mastrubate in the shower because the water washes all juices away and it gets uncomfortable). More nippleplay, the boobs are more sensitive when I'm on my period (rarely play with them outside it).

Sometimes, when I've watched a romantic movie I get all warm and gooey inside. Those are the evenings that I just surround myself with lots of fluffy pillows, sink back, relax, and take it really slow. Long teasing build-ups, just enjoying my body, caressing all over, evading my clit for as long as I can take the teasing. Usually takes about an hour before my first orgasm. Big O's. Big-big ones. They're a world of difference compared to the quicky-ones. I usually go for more than one orgasm too then, except when I'm really tired then I just drift off in sleep. If I don't have a busy day the following day though I can take hours just drifting in some higher state-of-feeling kind of thing? When trailing with a finger alone just gives goosebumps all over.

Then there's the normal morning-O. I just seem to do those without realising it. 10-20 minutes. When I know I have to get up soon but not yet... Have to be really careful when I'm sleeping over at a friends place with that. When I'm slowly waking up and realise I already have my hand down there. Happens often when I'm at home.
I'm less at ease when I'm sleeping elsewhere since I started doing that.

Hmm... it's hard trying to categorize them. There are grey zones. Not black-white.

 

[RawDog]

Thanks to this thread, I'm finding brand new ways of using my cock for something so much more than shoving deep onto the backstop.

Aside from Sarah, how common is it to use sex as a stress coping mechanism? I thought I was one of the few men that did that.

 

[Tattooed Goddess]

I definitely use it to deal with physical/emotional stress and especially to wear myself to fall asleep. I think it's inherently human.

 

[Embrace69]

I definitely use it to deal with physical/emotional stress and especially to wear myself to fall asleep. I think it's inherently human.

I also find that I do this a lot as well.

 

[Tattooed Goddess]

This has to be one of my favorite girlie girl threads in a long time. I'd thank the Dolfmeister for it but she'd blush and whatnot.