deserved punishment?

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Ok, njqt466 convinced me entirely: I'm wrong.
I will apologize and I'll buy her that narciso rodriguez fragrance she desire.
And I won't ask for her ass anymore :-(
thank you njqt466, grazie di cuore_thank you from the bottom of my heart. hey, that elecronic translator is a real shit :)

(and thanks to all the women (seriously, I'm honored to have had here all the feminine core of lpsg!)_and men_that helped me to understand_completely_the matter. thanks again, lpsg friends)
 

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Siete molto benvenuti.:smile:

You are not a bad man, you just didn't understand what was going on with her body. :redface:

After looking at some medical sites you should know that she most likely had the hemorrhoid(s) before you had anal sex. It was your penis entering her anus which ruptured the hemorrhoids. This is what caused the pain and bleeding.

Ok, njqt466 convinced me entirely: I'm wrong. I will apologize and I'll buy her that narciso rodriguez fragrance she desire.
And I won't ask for her ass anymore :-(
thank you njqt466, grazie di cuore_thank you from the bottom of my heart. hey, that elecronic translator is the real shit :)

(and thanks to all the women (seriously, I'm honored to have had here all the feminine core of lpsg!)_and men_that helped me to understand_completely_the matter. thanks again, lpsg friends)
 

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women have learned how to be passive agressive when it comes to unsettling sexual situations.
for instance. if she said no one time then thats no.
there' s no 'i insisted and she gave in'
at the point when a man 'insists on anal sex'
then a woman has to sometimes decide to submit in order to reduce the damage.
same thing with regular sex.
if you insist, its akin to marital rape because, she is at that point trying to negotiate to minimalize the damage.
this is an interesting thread, i didnt know men thought they could 'insist' without
being accused of raping a woman.

passive agressive is the woman lets you
then sues you in court and tells everything or
goes to the doctor to tell what happened instead of the police
its no wonder the dr. didnt call the police on you.
dont be stupid
find a woman who likes it and move on.

insisting.
yeah.
no.
 

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IF he's not a bad man am I stilla moron

I don't know you, so I don't know if you are a moron or not.
please do the same with me.
I don't think to be a bad man. nor a fucking rapist.
And, most important thing, SHE doesn't think to me as a bad man.
when I used the verb 'insist' i meant that we were YET having soft/petting sex and during this I propose to have anal. she said no, laughing and joking about it ( I repeat: it wasn't the first time). so I asked again (equal=INSIST) and she accepted.
I didn't forced her to make it.
sorry, max downs, I'm not that kind of man.
and I don't accept the portrait of me as a fucking male chauvinist.
simply it's not me.
 

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agree 100% with njqt

She's probably extremely turned off the hole anal thing for a good long time now and you should be in apology mode-- and not bring up anal for a while either.

And should such a time come when she is interested in anal again, your going to have to be a very patient man and just stick with anal play for awhile. With such a girth your going to have to work her up to your cock over the course of a few months.

Lick her clit and massage a finger up there for a week or 2, next week or 2 go for 2 fingers, next week or 2 try a slim vibrator, next week or month try a larger width vibe, etc and work her up to something more your size. If it hurts, stop, try something thinner for a while then the larger toy... etc Eventually you may work upto your cock. maybe. So you (and her) have to be ok that you may never get your cock in her ass... just if you're gonna try-- be nice and try to work her ass up to the size. (and dont stop playing with her clitoris either during this!)

and lube lube lube that ass.

But really thats alot of commitment to work upto it and she's gotta really wanna do it again -- and from that experience she's not going want anything in her ass for a good long time.

ymmv, good luck, keep your dick out of her ass for now.
 

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The fact that you said insist in your first post coloured a lot of the replies conchis, insisting means she said no and you said she has to, as you put it now I don't think she has any particular right to be angry, you asked she consented, it was more a mutual decision than you insisting.
 

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thanks spoiledprincess, unfortunately that verb is a false friend of the italian one INSISTERE, saying this in my language means (in this case) that I repeat a request. but she is absolutely free to answer yes or not.


ps. thank you for your opinion about the topic, 2plus1