Before I begin, I need to make some disclaimers. Of course, you should ALWAYS wear protection no matter what! I am making a bad choice having unprotected sex with someone despite the fact I've known her for awhile and she's on birth control. So discussion about this particular topic won't be needed. And now on with the thread... Of course, I only know this from the male point of view. When I'm having sex and building towards an orgasm, I change. I start to lose control. It's not that I'm unconscious, but it starts to feel strangely like I'm no longer in the drivers seat. I move from being "me" into this kinda anamalistic thing that only wants one thing: to cum in her. It just consumes me when I'm at the brink of orgasm. And the voice of reason yelling "don't" sounds far away comparatively. It feels hard to resist the temptation and pull out, but I cum and everything is back to normal; I'm perfectly in control. It sounds weird reading back over that, but I know I'm not alone from the male perspective. What I'm curious about is there anything like this for girls. Is there something in the female mind that wants a guy's cum just as badly as his wants to give it to her. A bit deep - hope no one minds.