1. Stop spending time with the wrong people. Life is too short to
spend time with people who suck the happiness out of you. If someone wants
you in their life, theyll make room for you. You shouldnt have to fight
for a spot. Never, ever insist yourself to someone who continuously
overlooks your worth. And remember, its not the people that stand by your
side when youre at your best, but the ones who stand beside you when
youre at your worst that are your true friends.
2. Stop running from your problems. Face them head on. No, it wont
be easy. There is no person in the world capable of flawlessly handling
every punch thrown at them. We arent supposed to be able to instantly
solve problems. Thats not how were made. In fact, were made to get
upset, sad, hurt, stumble and fall. Because thats the whole purpose of
living to face problems, learn, adapt, and solve them over the course of
time. This is what ultimately molds us into the person we become.
3. Stop lying to yourself. You can lie to anyone else in the world,
but you cant lie to yourself. Our lives improve only when we take
chances, and the first and most difficult chance we can take is to be
honest with ourselves. Read The Road Less Traveled.
4. Stop putting your own needs on the back burner. The most painful
thing is losing yourself in the process of loving someone too much, and
forgetting that you are special too. Yes, help others; but help yourself
too. If there was ever a moment to follow your passion and do something
that matters to you, that moment is now.
5. Stop trying to be someone youre not. One of the greatest
challenges in life is being yourself in a world thats trying to make you
like everyone else. Someone will always be prettier, someone will always
be smarter, someone will always be younger, but they will never be you.
Dont change so people will like you. Be yourself and the right people
will love the real you.
6. Stop trying to hold onto the past. You cant start the next
chapter of your life if you keep re-reading your last one.
7. Stop being scared to make a mistake. Doing something and getting
it wrong is at least ten times more productive than doing nothing. Every
success has a trail of failures behind it, and every failure is leading
towards success. You end up regretting the things you did NOT do far more
than the things you did.
8. Stop berating yourself for old mistakes. We may love the wrong
person and cry about the wrong things, but no matter how things go wrong,
one thing is for sure, mistakes help us find the person and things that are
right for us. We all make mistakes, have struggles, and even regret things
in our past. But you are not your mistakes, you are not your struggles,
and you are here NOW with the power to shape your day and your future.
Every single thing that has ever happened in your life is preparing you for
a moment that is yet to come.
9. Stop trying to buy happiness. Many of the things we desire are
expensive. But the truth is, the things that really satisfy us are totally
free love, laughter and working on our passions.
10. Stop exclusively looking to others for happiness. If youre not
happy with who you are on the inside, you wont be happy in a long-term
relationship with anyone else either. You have to create stability in your
own life first before you can share it with someone else. Read Stumbling
on Happiness.
11. Stop being idle. Dont think too much or youll create a problem
that wasnt even there in the first place. Evaluate situations and take
decisive action. You cannot change what you refuse to confront. Making
progress involves risk. Period! You cant make it to second base with
your foot on first.
12. Stop thinking youre not ready. Nobody ever feels 100% ready when
an opportunity arises. Because most great opportunities in life force us
to grow beyond our comfort zones, which means we wont feel totally
comfortable at first.
13. Stop getting involved in relationships for the wrong reasons.
Relationships must be chosen wisely. Its better to be alone than to be in
bad company. Theres no need to rush. If something is meant to be, it
will happen in the right time, with the right person, and for the best
reason. Fall in love when youre ready, not when youre lonely.
14. Stop rejecting new relationships just because old ones didnt work.
In life youll realize that there is a purpose for everyone you meet.
Some will test you, some will use you and some will teach you. But most
importantly, some will bring out the best in you.
15. Stop trying to compete against everyone else. Dont worry about
what others doing better than you. Concentrate on beating your own records
every day. Success is a battle between YOU and YOURSELF only.
16. Stop being jealous of others. Jealousy is the art of counting
someone elses blessings instead of your own. Ask yourself this: Whats
something I have that everyone wants?
17. Stop complaining and feeling sorry for yourself. Lifes
curveballs are thrown for a reason to shift your path in a direction that
is meant for you. You may not see or understand everything the moment it
happens, and it may be tough. But reflect back on those negative
curveballs thrown at you in the past. Youll often see that eventually
they led you to a better place, person, state of mind, or situation. So
smile! Let everyone know that today you are a lot stronger than you were
yesterday, and you will be.
18. Stop holding grudges. Dont live your life with hate in your
heart. You will end up hurting yourself more than the people you hate.
Forgiveness is not saying, What you did to me is okay. It is saying,
Im not going to let what you did to me ruin my happiness forever.
Forgiveness is the answer
let go, find peace, liberate yourself! And
remember, forgiveness is not just for other people, its for you too. If
you must, forgive yourself, move on and try to do better next time.
19. Stop letting others bring you down to their level. Refuse to
lower your standards to accommodate those who refuse to raise theirs.
20. Stop wasting time explaining yourself to others. Your friends
dont need it and your enemies wont believe it anyway. Just do what you
know in your heart is right.
21. Stop doing the same things over and over without taking a break.
The time to take a deep breath is when you dont have time for it. If you
keep doing what youre doing, youll keep getting what youre getting.
Sometimes you need to distance yourself to see things clearly.
22. Stop overlooking the beauty of small moments. Enjoy the little
things, because one day you may look back and discover they were the big
things. The best portion of your life will be the small, nameless moments
you spend smiling with someone who matters to you.
23. Stop trying to make things perfect. The real world doesnt reward
perfectionists, it rewards people who get things done. Read Getting Things
Done.
24. Stop following the path of least resistance. Life is not easy,
especially when you plan on achieving something worthwhile. Dont take the
easy way out. Do something extraordinary.
25. Stop acting like everything is fine if it isnt. Its okay to
fall apart for a little while. You dont always have to pretend to be
strong, and there is no need to constantly prove that everything is going
well. You shouldnt be concerned with what other people are thinking
either cry if you need to its healthy to shed your tears. The sooner
you do, the sooner you will be able to smile again.
26. Stop blaming others for your troubles. The extent to which you
can achieve your dreams depends on the extent to which you take
responsibility for your life. When you blame others for what youre going
through, you deny responsibility you give others power over that part of
your life.
27. Stop trying to be everything to everyone. Doing so is impossible,
and trying will only burn you out. But making one person smile CAN change
the world. Maybe not the whole world, but their world. So narrow your
focus.
28. Stop worrying so much. Worry will not strip tomorrow of its
burdens, it will strip today of its joy. One way to check if something is
worth mulling over is to ask yourself this question: Will this matter in
one years time? Three years? Five years? If not, then its not worth
worrying about.
29. Stop focusing on what you dont want to happen. Focus on what you
do want to happen. Positive thinking is at the forefront of every great
success story. If you awake every morning with the thought that something
wonderful will happen in your life today, and you pay close attention,
youll often find that youre right.
30. Stop being ungrateful. No matter how good or bad you have it,
wake up each day thankful for your life. Someone somewhere else is
desperately fighting for theirs. Instead of thinking about what youre
missing, try thinking about what you have that everyone else is missing.