I agree.
Perspective- point of view , and proportion have a lot to do with it.
At 5'8" 150# ,and a tad over 9" long, @5.75 girth, my ex wife said I was "shaped big".
never caught onto wht she meant, but i guess it was a way to avoid complimenting me.
It Always made me feel like she was not happy with my size.
Almost 10 years later-
A little heavier (160#) , same build, same endowment.
EVERY subsequent "tryst" since my divorce, I was VERY well recieved by the women I slept with- some better than others, but Still....
Yeah, i could brag about "it reaches my navel, and then some" , but now, without all the fanfare, it HAS a reason for going the distance, so to speak.
Essentially, that's another point of view-
-from the ego.