I'm changing the names in this scenario (which is true) just incase one of them is, by chance, a member on this site. I can't figure out what my managers sexuality is. "Chris," the manager, has some very feminie attributes. The way he walks. How he says some words. How he talks to people, etc. Anyway, on numerous occasions I've turned around and he'll be looking at me, or sometimes he's staring as though he was checking me out (not to sound too narcissistic, lol.) But as soon as he sees that I've caught his eye he'll look away. He's caught me checking him out many times and he doesn't move out of the way, nor does he pull a face or ask me what the fuck I'm doing. He'll stand there, smile, and look down at whatever he was working on. Sometimes he'll put his arms out and say "what!?" and then grin. I can even go as far to say that I believe he's flirted with me many times by the way he jokes around with me, and "sarcastically" comments at what I'm doing (or should be doing)... He does joke around with other people but I see him doing it alot more with me. When he's with other male employees or other male managers they'll spend time pointing out hot girls out around the store, but when he's not with them he doesn't even bring girls up. Today I had the opportunity to take the same break hour as he did. We were by ourselves and he was reading a muscle magazine and as soon as another employee came into the break room he was commenting on how hot some of the girls were that were advertising products in this magazine. I didn't sit and just watch him read because that would've seemed weird. I can't work it out. I don't even know what to look for. I guess it would be easier for me to explain it to you guys if you could be in my shoes for one of my shifts when he's working and watch at how he is. For some reason it just doesn't seem real when he's talking about women (if you know what I mean), that he's acting and the fact he's lieing is showing, and when the topic of gay relationships come up he just typically shrugs and ignores it. Since I started working with him over a year ago I haven't once heard him mention a girlfriend or a potential date with anyone in particular. Could he be a "straight acting gay"? Bi? I honestly don't know what to look for because my gaydar is complete shit. For all it's worth, he could be as straight as straight can be and I could be completely wrong about him. I just need to know what to look for or what to 'casually' say to him to hint anything. Any suggestions? Sorry if my description was vague. It was hard to put it into words all these little "incidents" that's led me to believe he has an interest in men. If you want any info just ask and I'll do my best to answer your question. Thanks!