dick sleeves: turn on or turn off?

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  1. basincreek

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    So in another thread it was brought up about how only with a select few women could I ever hope to hit the backstop. Then it occurred to me that this might be possible with a dick sleeve or extender.

    So.....if your guy needed one to be big enough would that be a turn off for you? Would you prefer to just go along with his natural size instead of turning to an artificial enhancement? Or would it enable you to get off in a way that you normally might not and thus serve as something you wish your guy would do?

    And for guys that might be considering using one like me: how does it make you feel that it would be necessary? To me it doesn't seem like that big of a deal if I had to use one but is it the same for you? Would you be mortified if one was necessary for your partner to truly get off?
     
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    Interesting thread imo, Basin.

    I think it would be a problem if your partner didn't get off with you naturally, so having to use one could be a problem unless both parties were very cool and accepting about it.

    Using one for experimentation/play is a different issue.
     
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    Well it would be a problem if your partner didn't get off on you naturally. Of course I was thinking more about a situation where you just can't get one area like the PF and need to use this to enable it.

    I just think that if my woman really wanted her backstop stimulated and this was the only way I could do it (which would be the case unless she's got a freakishly shallow vagina) I would do it. I would also do it if she needed way more girth than I have.

    But other guys might not be willing and that's what I'm wondering about in part.
     
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    Most of the time I'd rather have him than a piece of plastic, even if he didn't reach my deep spots. But it might be nice occasionally. And I'd be willing to use it more often if it was what he really wanted.
     
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    So you don't necessarily think it's a turn off but don't think it would normally be required?
     
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    Spot on.
     
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    color me naive. I didn't know such things existed
     
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    I first saw them in a porno. It was called How To Fuck A Big Pussy. That was the real title.
     
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    I have used one for the fantasy of having a bigger cock and my girl likes it. Not all the time but occasionally to spice things up. It ads a bit to thickness and a couple more inches to my average self. The one I have has a bit of extra latex with a hole in it to slip over my balls so it stays put and you can pretty much fuck normally.
     
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    Any comments from other women on whether they think of this as a turn on/off?
     
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    Turn off.

    Just doesn't strike me as genuine.
     
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    got a pic of this beast? Or you wearing it? What sensations do you have when your're in balls deep? Don't know much about this particular toy...

     
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    Dude, I don't mean to be rude, but a lot of your threads seem to revolve around this. Trust me, get out, and start getting laid and you will find out. Size really isn't as important as you have trained yourself to think. When I was 18, I lived in Central Point, Oregon and had a few "fuck buddies" that I had had since high school. We went to parties together, hung out on a regular basis, shit even close enough that my xmas list was bigger than it otherwise would have been. one of these gals, was in a realtionship with a guy who had a python in his pants. She gave it to me more than him. He hurt bad enough that she gotto the point she would make him wait until Saturday, she would start drinking mSaturday evening so she could "numb" herself up a bit, do her thing, or let him do his thing, and make him live on blow jobs during the week.

    He worked day shift, and I worked swing shift. She and I ran into each other one day when she was visiting a neighbor of mine, one thing led to another and we were in bed. Well, our buddy days started back up, by her driving over to my place after he would leave for work. She would come over several times a week, until she finally broke up with him and started going out with me. It was his cock that drove her away. I guess he was huge, and happened to be one of those guys who tended to be pretty uncaring of whether or not he was hurting his partners or not. He would leave her in pain for days afterward. The way she described it it was like if some one were to kick you in the nuts over and over, and over, and over until they came.

    She evven told me that if I had that much it wouldn't have been a deal breaker, because I am a more caring lover than that. TBH, I wouldn't want that much maybe a little thicker but hell, I do just fine. I love being able to go balls deep. Hell, even at 7 inches you got to be careful with a lot of chicks, atleast until the first orgasm:biggrin1:

    My point is, that from what I have gathered reading your posts, you are still a virgin. Instead of asking off the wall questions, just get out and have fun. there are smaller guys out there than you
     
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    Okay, Hassall, what should I do first?
     
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    I think you should take Hassall's advice basincreek. He's right, you're often posting on this subject. You seem certain that women will reject you on the basis of your cock size. I've said it before, but I'll say it again: You're well enough equipped to do the buisness with women as you are. So try to find a way to stop worrying/obsessing about your size, because if you take that worry/obsession with you into a relationship you are bound to cause the relationship to fail.

    There are countless millions of men in the world who are less well endowed than you and they hold down successful sexual relationships no problem. Guys who get a bit of a negative body fixation either put obstacles in their own way and never get brave enough to have a relationship, or they take so much negativity into a relationship that the girl gets fed up and goes off in search of someone a bit more fun.

    Oh, and to answer your question: I tried one of those penis extensions back in the mid '70s. I wanted to know what it would feel like to fuck my gf with a bigger cock. I also wanted to know if my gf would like it. The thing was basically a thick latex cock shaped condom, with the glans and a bit of the shaft filled with a prosthetic foam half-penis. You roll it on like a condom and the result is about 2" longer than you normally are. I was around 6.2" at that time so the result was well over 8" long although probably no fatter than usual. So we tried having sex with it and it was disappointing. I could hardly feel a thing, and it started to get uncomfortable for me within a very short time. My gf said it didn't feel right. Too hard and just not real. I wasn't able to insert my cock balls deep, and that wasn't a plus for either of us. Neither of us was going top get anywhere near an orgasm with the condom/extension thing in the way so I took it off and we continued without it. Afterwards we agreed that it had been a fun experiment but not worth doing again. The ability of a normal sized cock to go balls deep is not to be underestimated.

    In porn, things need to look spectacular in order to have maximum visual impact, which is why both men and women like to see a big dick in action. But the length of the cock is of little importance in real world sex. In my experience, women come during sex from the sensation of their vulva being rhythmically massaged by the base of my cock while it's buried in them. They honestly don't NEED as much a 6"-7" And 8"-9" is a lot more than most women want and can be less easy for them to get off on than, say, a 5"-6" cock that can grind away balls deep or pound away like fury without hurting. Would any of the women on here like to back me up here?
     
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    Yes but don't they, usually, also want a thick dick? If they do then this sleeve thing could help me achieve that.
     
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    I understand you're interest in wearing one & I also share the same insecurities you have regarding my size.I don't judge anyone who uses one or is thinking about it.However, I personally would feel humiliated by wearing a sleeve. Something along the lines of ...sigh...this is
    what I have to resort to
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    Also...is there a danger of one's partner losing interest in you and wanting to seek out someone who's well endowed enough as to not need a sleeve.How about the possibility of a partner only wanting sex when it is worn ?
     
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    I agree with Crosz on both points he makes. I would prefer to be appreciated for what I had naturally than otherwise, as I imagine many, if not most, women would prefer that her partner appreciates her body as is, both visually and functionally.

    Im not sure that the members who've read this posting understand the BAD experience you had years ago, but I understand exactly how your thinking has arrived at where it has, in that you've been hesitant to have sex with women without packing more in some way. I agree with the member who posted to just let go, and go out and try it (I know, a lot easier said than done, and what I mean by that is not to just go have one-night stands all the time, I'm taking about actively dating on a regular basis, with the intention of eventually getting involved in a long term relationship). You may want to take a guarded approach, first getting a sense of where a woman stands in the "does size matter" debate, but even then, I'm thinking odds are you're pretty safe even if you don't, because I believe size queens are def in the minority, and if you're with her long enough, that preference will probably come out without having to be addressed directly.
     
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    I like my tube idea better, you get the extension and the girth and it's the head of your dick on the end rather than a plastic one. Kind of a Frankincock idea but it works great and you can stay erect as long as you want.
     
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