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Perhaps, but not all gay men are into anal. That's also a mistaken impression and one that scares a lot of men who have gay friends. That sooner or later they are going to try to get them to open up anally.

Anal is not for everyone. Probably a lot fewer guys are threatened by the idea of dueling swords, wrestling, frot. Mutual masturbation seems to be a very common male fantasy. Almost every guy I've ever known well will admit to having a buddy they were turned on by at least once in their life.
 

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One drawback of the site for me is that it takes an aggressively negative point of view on anal sex.

I can see your point but I am able to enjoy the photos and stories and accept the anti-anal sex opinion for what it is -the expression of opinions from someone who is reciprocating intolerance with perhaps some intolerance of his/their own. Taking a step back and looking at the whole picture, the site leans pretty heavily towards honoring one's personal preferences and encouraging us to resist pressure from others who would make our choices for us if given a chance. :biggrin1:
 

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Seeing how we are talking about frot, I'll keep my remarks there... Frot is definitely hot. I wish there were more erotic and simply blue videos based on frot and that it wasn't portrayed as less than or on its way to another level. For some of us, it is already beyond description!
 
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There are some Cool videos with frot as a component, but generally leading to anal (presented as the basic goal.) Are there any videos where foreplay leads to frot, shooting the wad and after glow, long term buddyhood? Are there any stories written along this line? If not, I bet some among us here could write a whole story line to get hearts and other parts beating. Anyone interested? I've got some ideas for those interested in writing...
 

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I'm totally into dick to dick action. Though I'm straight, I find myself watching a lot of gay porn just to see if there is any of that stuff in it. Sadly, most of the time it leads to anal, which isn't my thing with men. :/

It seems that 'straight' porn with gangbangs or DP has a lot more dick on dick contact than gay porn. That strikes me as odd.
 

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GREAT topic but is it _really_ safe? Safer than anal indeed but I'm not so sure about safety in general..
You can get HPV/herpes from just skin to skin contact and the person does not have to be showing symptoms of either.

I don't mean to scare you but you did ask.

A Poz friend told me how the only safer sex is sitting in two corners of a room and watching each other masturbate as it all carries risk and we all make choices.

Life isn't always worth living in a plastic bubble. If you are that worried just be selective/picky who you do it with and by all means get tested/keep getting tested if you already do.

SFCC :: Ask Dr. K : STD Transmission and Prevention - Frottage and Rubbing Around

How safe is frottage -- specifically cock rubbing along the buttcrack -- when the head of the penis doesn't graze or enter the anus? I read an article about frottage that suggested if you cockrub the ass, you should wear a condom. Is there a different risk if you cum on the guy's back while doing it? Is it still too close to the anus to do it unprotected? ANSWER
Certain infections like syphilis or herpes can be transmitted through frottage as you describe, but other infections like HIV, chlamydia or gonorrhea would be extremely unlikely. Generally, frottage is considered a safer sex activity, cum or no cum.
To your health,
Dr. K
 

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For me..cock to cock, and frot in general is one of the most enjoyable things about m2m sex.

One drawback of the site for me is that it takes an aggressively negative point of view on anal sex.

Yes, the owners of this site are very "anti anal", however there is lots of really good content. Check it out and make up your own mind about the more extreme views.
 

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Some cut guys really get into docking. I had a "regular" who waited for me in the YMCA steam room, 'coz his method of getting off was for me to ejaculate on his cock head enclosed by my foreskin. He took advantage of his cum covered cut head to be lubed up for an explosion.