When I was younger and spent the night with friends, we'd spend all our time in bed rubbing against each other like this. I miss the total abandon of it, the lack of any goal other than pure pleasure.
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frot is most definitely the ultimate for me as far as man2man sex goes.... i think it's highly underrated, and the fact that gay sex isn't broadcast to the masses in this way is a huge detriment to gay culture as a whole.... (not all of us are about raunch and some of the BS that's in the porn movies....) it's surprising to me that some of my gay friends who are in to some of the most hardcore of sexual activities haven't even heard of it.... i'm like: "ARE YOU FUCKING KIDDING ME???"
i had a very hard time coming to terms with my sexuality until i found out about frot and the culture surrounding it.... until that point, i wasn't willing to accept my sexuality because to me at that time, being gay meant that somehow i had to submit to having anal sex.... and i have NO interest in it whatsoever.... (like, seriously; a guy even comes close to my anus and i go softer than cotton candy....) once i found out about frot, and the fact that there was a culture of gay guys out there who didn't practice anal sex, i could finally discover my own sexual identity and i knew that my preferences were ok... and as a result, i'm much more comfortable expressing my sexuality to other people....
i still get a lot of flack from people with sexual preferences that involve anal sex, and have often been told by other gay men that i suffer from internalized homophobia because i don't have it or admit to some deep rooted curiosity about it.... but to me, frot is where it's at.... it's sensual, it's intimate, and it's solely focused on pleasure using sex organs rather than poop chutes.... i really hope that people participating in and reading this thread will take this dialogue out in to the real world with them.... it could help a very many people who are suffering from the same internal conflicts i once did....
i had a very hard time coming to terms with my sexuality until i found out about frot and the culture surrounding it.... until that point, i wasn't willing to accept my sexuality because to me at that time, being gay meant that somehow i had to submit to having anal sex.... and i have NO interest in it whatsoever.... (like, seriously; a guy even comes close to my anus and i go softer than cotton candy....) once i found out about frot, and the fact that there was a culture of gay guys out there who didn't practice anal sex, i could finally discover my own sexual identity and i knew that my preferences were ok... and as a result, i'm much more comfortable expressing my sexuality to other people....
i still get a lot of flack from people with sexual preferences that involve anal sex, and have often been told by other gay men that i suffer from internalized homophobia because i don't have it or admit to some deep rooted curiosity about it.... but to me, frot is where it's at.... it's sensual, it's intimate, and it's solely focused on pleasure using sex organs rather than poop chutes.... i really hope that people participating in and reading this thread will take this dialogue out in to the real world with them.... it could help a very many people who are suffering from the same internal conflicts i once did....
Years ago, my main activity was frot though at the time I didn't know the name of it. I just enjoyed the C2C action. I could easily hold off cumming for a long while until my partner would show signs of cumming and then I would let go using their cum as lubricant. Sorry to say somewhere along the way I got away from it but would love to get back to it.
I read a casual comment somewhere on this site about a frot party held in a tight space, like a cabin or something with a bunch of guys so tightly packed in and lubed up moving around....now that sounds like the ultimate frot party I'd love to experience.
Anyone recall who posted that?
I read a casual comment somewhere on this site about a frot party held in a tight space, like a cabin or something with a bunch of guys so tightly packed in and lubed up moving around....now that sounds like the ultimate frot party I'd love to experience.
Anyone recall who posted that?
Since this is an older thread that recently came back to life, I don't recall whether or not I previously posted my thoughts about frot, so I apologize if I'm repeating myself.
The truth is, I've never really thought much about frot. My experiences with other gay men have mostly been a combination of oral sex and jacking off together. Anal sex has only come up twice and the results were less than satisfactory (although I'm willing to try again).
But when I think about it, some of my best sexual experiences have been frottage. I always thought of it as a kind of foreplay, but now that I'm thinking about it, I always found it more intense and exciting than giving or receiving a blow job. The sad truth is, the blowjobs I've received have mostly been anti-climactic, and I doubt that the blowjobs I've given have been all that great, either. It doesn't have to be dick-to-dick, either. I can think of a couple of occassions where I came from rubbing my dick on a guy's thigh or between his legs.
Agreed, but I'd add that it's not just sex organs, but the entire body, in all it's masculine glory...muscles, body hair....having your limbs entwined with another man's, chest pressed into chest, belly to belly, thighs moving against thighs, squeezing each other, cocks and balls rubbed everywhere...as you say it's sensual and intimate.
The truth is, I've never really thought much about frot. My experiences with other gay men have mostly been a combination of oral sex and jacking off together. Anal sex has only come up twice and the results were less than satisfactory (although I'm willing to try again).
But when I think about it, some of my best sexual experiences have been frottage. I always thought of it as a kind of foreplay, but now that I'm thinking about it, I always found it more intense and exciting than giving or receiving a blow job. The sad truth is, the blowjobs I've received have mostly been anti-climactic, and I doubt that the blowjobs I've given have been all that great, either. It doesn't have to be dick-to-dick, either. I can think of a couple of occassions where I came from rubbing my dick on a guy's thigh or between his legs.
frot is...highly underrated...it's sensual, it's intimate, and it's solely focused on pleasure using sex organs rather than poop chutes....
Agreed, but I'd add that it's not just sex organs, but the entire body, in all it's masculine glory...muscles, body hair....having your limbs entwined with another man's, chest pressed into chest, belly to belly, thighs moving against thighs, squeezing each other, cocks and balls rubbed everywhere...as you say it's sensual and intimate.
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The frottage group (Frot is Hot) on LPSG has LOTS of straight guys in it. I have to say I was surprised at first too, even though in the group description I say if you like other dudes but aren't into anal you need to try this. But now that we have 900 members (!) I'm over being surprised. LOL.
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It was me!! In the Frot group a thread called "The Best Party Ever."
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Yeah the owner of that site has needlessly caused a lot of controversy in the gay community becaus of his anti-anal stance. My motto is do what you want and don't judge other people who want to do something different. It's appalling that a gay man is that intolerant and judgmental. There is some good content on that site though, just have to wade through the "politics" of anti-anal sometimes.
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I would love to play "tummy sticks" with someone. I don't know if there is anything hotter than the thought of rubbing my hard cock against someone elses.
Ps. I'm a "tummy stick" virgin.
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Love it! Also, cock docking when one of the guys is bigger or has a lot of foreskin is super hot!
I wish I had a cock that guys could wrap around their own and jerk themselves off with!
I wish I had a cock that guys could wrap around their own and jerk themselves off with!
It's called frottage and is the foreplay that eventually leads loving friends to try the sucking, fucking, etc. I am an old man but all three of my male partners and I first "engaged" in the frottage mode. Somehow our cocks always got even harder just being in close proximity to each other. And, as lilbear notes docking is also fun, but one should be prepared for the big mess that can be.
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"It's called frottage and is the foreplay that eventually leads loving friends to try the sucking, fucking, etc."
... not so.... frot is only considered foreplay for those who enjoy the practice of anal sex.... for others, it is the epitome of gay sex.... frot does not necessarily have to lead in to something more hardcore because some people simply have no interest or desire to....
... not so.... frot is only considered foreplay for those who enjoy the practice of anal sex.... for others, it is the epitome of gay sex.... frot does not necessarily have to lead in to something more hardcore because some people simply have no interest or desire to....
