Dick Too Big?? Help??

Discussion in 'Sex With a Large Penis' started by beachlooking, Jun 13, 2010.

  1. beachlooking

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    Hey Guys - I've got a personal question, and dont know how to start a new conversation -- Anyway, My Lover for the past several years has got a larger dick than mine. I have always been a top - but decided to switch up. I Love him, and his dick - but it is tooo large for me. I dont want to tell him how bad it hurts - cause he likes the switch. Any ideas?? Please Help?? :confused:
     
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    If his dick is bigger then yours he should be fucking you; just kidding.
     
  3. john_hiemer

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    How much bigger are we talking here? At a certain size point there's really not much you can do.
     
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    I think the fact that you're willing to put up with the pain because you know topping makes your man happy is seriously sweet - but not at all practical or that much fun for you.
    I think it's probably (cliche as it is) just to talk to him about it.
    If you're willing to bottom, then there are loads of ways he can get you to relax more to let him in without hurting you. That's assuming you're a natural bottom/versatile.

    I think a lot of men would love to top or bottom if they take the opposite role, but some simply can't bottom. One of my boyfriends is a total top, and the other a versatile bottom. The top sees me and the vers. have flip flop fun, and would love to try too, but in the past bottoming, despite the want and intention, wasn't happening, as it wasn't something he could do, and as such, it wasn't fun to know he was getting hurt.

    There is something called the comecloser ring (cumcloser?) that I read about a while back.

    Basically, it's like a 1-2 inch long cockring/tunnel-like toy that you put on your dick at the base, and when you fuck, the ring stops you from fully penetrating the ass (or vagina :]) whilse still making it feel that you're completely inside, as you have a physical resistance pushing back on the base of your cock, making it feel like you're fully inside.

    If that is still around (I'm sure it is, but can't find any links sorry) then that might be something worth looking into. If it's too much to take, but you really want to bottom, and your man really wants to top, it could be something worth pursuing! :)

    Wish I could be more help.
    But hope all works out! :D
    Keep us updated about how you get on! ^_^
     
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    Try sitting on him: more control.
     
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