Hello. I just read the entire thread regarding the negatives of having a big dick. I was very surprised that no one mentioned that really big dicks often don't point up, and often don't get as hard as smaller ones. I thought the subject was interesting enough to start another thread. Personally, it is a very important visual turn on to see a dick standing hard and up. A smooth straight dick pointing up 75 degrees above the horizontal is such a turn-on for me! Likewise, I like to feel it get really rock hard. As sex gets going, this hardening is very erotic for me. The really big dicks I have encountered tended to be unable to lift themselves up, and never got as hard as the smaller ones. In addition to being less erotic, it can also impede penetration. There are some exceptions, and I don't know why. But the "bigger than average" 7.5 ers seem to be ideal for me.