i have a problem fitting most guys dicks in me cause im to tight. i dont know what to do
Hey Music,
Being a man I have no vagina. But I have experience orchestrating a large penis inside a tight vagina, (Get it musicchick, "orchestrate", cuz you're music... chick... haha, oh man). So anyways, you have to talk to the guy, and make sure you are on the same page. He needs to be prepared as much as you do. If he is just looking to bust a quick nut, just blow him and have sex later. For this to work, you and him need to be patient and work together. You have to go slow, very slow, and preheat that oven. Get the pussy as wett as possible and then lather on as much lube as you can, line up the equipment in a position where penetration can be controlled easliy, and start slowly. Fingering may help first also, but when it comes time, he will need to line up the head of his cock on your pussy lips, and take his time. This can be hard because he might have to spend the first thirty minutes working in the first half inch of his cock, which takes a lot of self control, a really hard erection, and patience. Slowly but surely, if you two are on the same page and are focused on the goal it will work, and it shouldn't be too painful if done right. The human body is built to accommodate, you just have to realize that the pace of your body and the pace of your sex drive are different, and if you are trying to accommodate for a big honkin dong, you have to slow down and let your body catch up, otherwise it will feel painful, and will probably be a negative and frustrating experience.
In my opinion the reason that so many women have a hard time fitting men with large dicks is not their fault and rather the fault of the men. In some respects a man with a large penis trying to fit in a small vagina needs a higher sexual IQ for things to work right. If he doesn't have the control, patience, and energy to focus all of his energy into merging his big cock in that tight vagina, he will probably end up hurting the girl, and forcing a halt to the sex. The girl is the easier one to place the blame on because its so easy to say "Oh she couldn't fit me" but really, most women can accommodate most sizes
IF the man is willing to play along.