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Discussion in 'Women's Issues' started by musicchick18, May 2, 2008.
i have a problem fitting most guys dicks in me cause im to tight. i dont know what to do
Hi amy18/Jadeanna :lmao:
Just practice regularly with big dildos or big cocks and don't give up... Soon you will be able to enjoy as big cock as you can imagine
You will strech out. Relax. If not go see a doc and he can open you up a bit.
You are lucky to be female as you have a backup system. Try taking it anally as it will likely hurt less, then work yourself up to using the vagina again. If neither works, seek medical advice, or date a doctor.
try extra foreplay...and have them give you a good tongue workover.if needed...ill even volunteer.
LUBE, LUBE, and MORE LUBE! Also practice makes perfect.
I don't know what to do either, life sucks some times doesn't it? Maybe you should try that to?
Lots of lube; maybe try a few different size dildos; start with a smallish one then go larger and larger until you feel thats all you can handle? I don't know, just my opinion.
Practice makes perfect.
Plenty of foreplay, have the guy make you cum with his mouth 1st and have him work your pussy with 1,2,3 or 4 fingers at the same time. Your pussy will become "tented" and you shoudn't have any more problems fitting him in.
First you need to feel you can trust your partner.
Second learn to control the kegel muscles, once you can relax and tighten them you will be able to play with large dildo.
Third Forplay is a must the hot and horny you are the better.
Fourth LUBE my preference is sweet almond oil. You can get it at most health food stores.
And Lastly we all have our limits and if we push it to far we can end up in pain.
Vaginismus Introduction - Health encyclopaedia - NHS Direct
do you have vaginismus perhaps?
if not, lube. and go slow. start with small dildos and work your way up.
some dire and scary advice there.
Uhm, tons of lube, relaxation, patience, and if necessary, a trip to the doc.
Being a man I have no vagina. But I have experience orchestrating a large penis inside a tight vagina, (Get it musicchick, "orchestrate", cuz you're music... chick... haha, oh man). So anyways, you have to talk to the guy, and make sure you are on the same page. He needs to be prepared as much as you do. If he is just looking to bust a quick nut, just blow him and have sex later. For this to work, you and him need to be patient and work together. You have to go slow, very slow, and preheat that oven. Get the pussy as wett as possible and then lather on as much lube as you can, line up the equipment in a position where penetration can be controlled easliy, and start slowly. Fingering may help first also, but when it comes time, he will need to line up the head of his cock on your pussy lips, and take his time. This can be hard because he might have to spend the first thirty minutes working in the first half inch of his cock, which takes a lot of self control, a really hard erection, and patience. Slowly but surely, if you two are on the same page and are focused on the goal it will work, and it shouldn't be too painful if done right. The human body is built to accommodate, you just have to realize that the pace of your body and the pace of your sex drive are different, and if you are trying to accommodate for a big honkin dong, you have to slow down and let your body catch up, otherwise it will feel painful, and will probably be a negative and frustrating experience.
In my opinion the reason that so many women have a hard time fitting men with large dicks is not their fault and rather the fault of the men. In some respects a man with a large penis trying to fit in a small vagina needs a higher sexual IQ for things to work right. If he doesn't have the control, patience, and energy to focus all of his energy into merging his big cock in that tight vagina, he will probably end up hurting the girl, and forcing a halt to the sex. The girl is the easier one to place the blame on because its so easy to say "Oh she couldn't fit me" but really, most women can accommodate most sizes IF the man is willing to play along.
Hey! how about just finding a guy with less than 6 inches? See how that might feel more natural. ..and lube it'.
Try finding a guy with a small dick to practice with!
Honest. Try one that fits you. There's no rule you have to fit in a big cock. If you can't, you can't. It can be a very painful experience if you try and it might put you of having sex for quite a while.