B_VinylBoy
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I am sorry but this is not true. At least not completely.
You don't know me, so your judgment is obviously derived only from the written word. A couple of observations:
I only have your written word to go by, and thus far it doesn't look too good. But perhaps I can be persuaded?
1. Personally I find cut penises very sexy if they are well done, which is not very common. Very often you see horrible scars, bi- or tricolored skin etc.
And you jump out of the gate with an argument that encompasses vanity. Not a good start.
2. Being uncut but with very short skin ("autocircumcized" they say) my personal status is similar to people loosely cut.
OK.
3. That cut penisses have no smegma is as far as I know true. The question is whether normal hygiene suffices. The answer is YES. Many civilized countries show this fact (I have been to Scandinavia and all over the world, I live in Switzerland and I know what I am talking about).
And I'm a world traveller with my own share of international "trade". You won't hear me make an argument regarding the smell of one's dick because anyone can use soap & water.
4. Women should stop making a big fuss about smegma because they produce 10 times more than a man (and they produce other unpleasant stuff too). They should also perform personal hygiene and this suffices.
The same way you should not make a fuss because of how it looks, as pertained in declaration number one? Ummmmm... double standard?
5. Many body parts can get dirty and you do not chop them off a priori.
Most parents who decide to get their infant boys circumcised are not thinking just on this belief. It's one that has been completely exaggerated by those who are against the procedure.
6. The US holds no monopoly of cleanliness. Neither personal nor environmental. At least compared to most of Europe. WW II finished 60 years ago and there has been quite an evolution on this side of the pond.
As doesn't Europe even though it does rank higher than the US in pertains to cleanliness. But I'm sure the Forbes study didn't include circumcision as part of the criteria.
7. The HIV epidemics is related to behavior and not to circumcision status.
That is something you cannot prove. You're not a scientist, and as long as we have medical experts that state otherwise it's something we have to consider while we devise our own opinion.
8. We have seen the demonization not only of foreskins, but also of tonsils, wisdom teeth, ovaries, uteruses etc.
Ummmm... are you even trying to compare tonsils & wisdom teeth to circumcision? You seriously cannot be grasping at straws this much.
9. A lot of medical practice is the fruit of irrational belief, fashion and not of science (it is not "evidence based" according to a fashionable expression).
Again, that's your opinion and not stipulated by most medical truths or facts.
10. A lot of fashions are dictated by the interests of lobbies or of corporations.
And is there an International Association of Circumcision somewhere that we don't know about?
11. Peer pressure is unbelievable in societies that claim to protect personal freedom and individuals.
That's a cop-out. Peer pressure is nothing more than a group trying to force people to think or do what they feel is right. And that's everywhere in our society wherever you live. From a poster on a wall, to a television or radio ad, to a fiscal or political agenda pushed under the guise of everyday people while being funded by corporate influence in an attempt to make more money.
12. Adults can dispose of their bodies as they like as long as they do not oblige others to do the same.
And in the case of circumcision, nobody is forcing you to do that.
13. Irreversible and controversial surgical procedures should NOT be performed on infants, neither male nor female.
This is the biggest issue I have with those who are against circumcision. That is not your call to make. Parents choose to not circumcise their newborn or infant males because THEY HAVE A CHOICE. But to deny someone else that same right to choose because they may decide to is wrong. Strip away all of the excuses, the reasoning, the medical & conspiracy theories and this is what it boils down to.
14. Chopping off body parts from innocent infants as a religious ceremony and making it sort of THE central part of religion tells a lot about the nature of that religion, or at least of the interpretation of it in the 21st century.
Careful... you're about to discriminate against a group of people just because of a ritualistic practice that you don't agree with. If the idea is to paint an image of objectivity & acceptance, that's the last thing you should be doing.
15. People that have lost their foreskins can for sure be thoroughly happy. The neuroplasticity of the brain mostly compensates for the loss if they have not been butchered.
The brain has a LOT more to do with it than any nerve endings on one's dick. That's where everything (including sensation) is processed, and you decide whether or not you like it. Case in point, I know people who like to have their balls licked and others who don't. Shall we not tell someone who has to have a testicle removed for whatever reason that they're now mutilated and not "what nature intended"?
16. How many botched circumcisions occur yearly in the US? Would you take the risk for your newborn son? Personally, NO.
Statistics show that more than 90% of circumcisions performed are done without complications worldwide. The decision to decide whether or not to circumcise my newborn son will be made between myself, my child bearer and my doctor. Personally, I don't care either way because I'd be adamant in teaching my son his true sense of being and self-worth beyond what is (or isn't) between his legs. But as you have the choice to circumcise or not, I would appreciate having that same choice. And if we wind up not agreeing, then that's something you'll have to deal with.
Don't tell me that I don't have any right to choose when you essentially made a choice yourself.
PS Sorry if I have made spelling errors etc. I am not an english native speaker and I need to speak and write 4 or 5 different languages daily.
None taken. :biggrin1: